Bringing your fantasy up to your wife can be a pretty intimidating thought, especially for the reasons you just selected. Those are actually the most common worries/concerns men have when they think about bringing this topic up with their wives. And they're common because they're realistic.
That said, I don't consider it a bad thing that you haven't broached the subject yet. Why?
Because it can be tricky and oftentimes result in a lack of success if you decide to bring it up on your own without first doing the right things (we'll talk more about what these things are later). You see, most men don't do the right things before they bring the fantasy up and therefore they wind up creating a hole for themselves that they need to dig out of. You won't have to dig yourself out of anything though, and this puts you at an advantage.
Let's see what other advantages you have by moving on to the next section.
So, first off, let me tell you that the fact your wife already knows about your fantasy puts you at an advantage. A lot of men don't even have the courage to bring their fantasy up to their wife, but you did. That puts you a step ahead of the game.
That said, getting your wife to willingly and excitedly embrace your FLR fantasy is NOT easy, especially if you've already tried and she just isn't as into it as you'd like her to be.
Just because she doesn't seem very into it right now though and would only consider doing it because you want her to doesn't mean you can't eventually get her fully on board, especially if you do what I call restructuring your fantasy to her.
You'd be surprised at how effective this actually is. But before I tell you more about that, let's move on to the next section to see what other advantages you have.
It's not uncommon for men to worry or think that their wives will lose respect for them if they take on more of a "submissive role". That said, whether or not you think this is a realistic concern, it's certainly a good thing your wife hasn't explicitly indicated she'll lose respect for you if you were more submissive. This puts you in a better situation than some other men out there whose wives flat out told them if they become more submissive, they wouldn't respect them as much.
Anyway, given the fact that I help men in situations like that get their wives willingly on board, you should know your situation will be a bit easier, and that's a good thing. Moving on...
Anyone who knows anything about FLRs knows there are several components to them. There's a sexual part, a chores/household responsibilities part, there can be a financial part, and even other parts as well. And when it comes to transitioning your relationship to an FLR, you don't want to try and make all those changes at once. Any changes you make to the structure of your relationship should be done in a piecewise fashion; in other words, making changes in one area at a time works way better than trying to change all areas at the same time.
The current way you split chores/household responsibilities is actually advantageous when it comes to transitioning a relationship into an FLR. The changes you still have left to make will be a lot easier/smoother than if she were the one doing all the household chores. This is a good thing.
The current way you split chores/household responsibilities is actually advantageous when it comes to transitioning a relationship into an FLR. Your wife will almost certainly welcome more help from you with open arms. In turn she'll become freer and happier, and we'll be able to leverage this and draw upon it in the future in a way that will bring the two of you closer together than ever before. If you're not excited by this yet, you will be soon. Most men vastly underestimate just how powerful this advantage is.
The current dynamic/interaction style you have with your wife is also advantageous when it comes to transitioning a relationship into an FLR. The fact that she's the dominant one means she already has a foundation off which we can build to get to embrace this dominant side in the context of an FLR. This will be easier than if she wasn't comfortable being dominant at all.
The current dynamic/interaction style you have with your wife is also advantageous when it comes to transitioning a relationship into an FLR. The fact that you treat each other as equals means she's comfortable enough with you and in the relationship to assert who she is. That's very important when it comes to being able to make this fantasy happen because it means she already has a foundation off which we can build to get to embrace her inner dominant side in the context of an FLR.
The current dynamic/interaction style you have with your wife is also advantageous when it comes to transitioning a relationship into an FLR. Because an FLR will require this dynamic to switch, here again your wife will most certainly welcome having more of a "say" or more "input" into things (however small they are) more than you might think. This is a good thing because of the positive "priming" effect it will have when it comes to making some more FLR changes.
Last but not least, the fact that your wife is playing as big of a role as she is in in the sex department means that she is already comfortable at some level calling the shots when it comes to sexual things. This is a good thing because after you learn a few easy-to-implement techniques, you'll see it won't take much to get her to embrace this part of her in a way that will afford the two of you some sexual fun that you may have never experienced before.
All that said, let's move on to the last section.
Last but not least, the fact that you play the more dominant role in the sex department means that it's going to be pretty fun for her to start exploring what it's like to call the shots with sexual things since she never has before. This is a good thing because it'll take far less effort than you think to get her to embrace this part of her in a way that will afford the two of you some sexual fun that you may have never experienced before.
Last but not least, the fact that you two have a more vanilla sex life will mean that the changes we'll look to help you make will afford the two of you some sexual fun that you may have never experienced before. The effects that changes like this can have will literally reignite a spark between the two of you that will shake your wife to the core in the most positive of ways.
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