The Story Of Jerry's Struggle
Jerry was a 48 year old executive who occupied the leadership role in almost all his relationships, both at work and at home. He was always in the driver’s seat, having to make all the decisions and call all the shots.
He enjoyed the power and control, sure. But…deep down he desired to experience something else.
Jerry wanted to feel what it was like to be in the passenger’s seat. He wanted to experience someone overpowering him, forcing him to do what they said. And he wanted that someone to be a woman…More specifically, he wanted that woman to be his wife.
The only problem was that Jerry’s wife was the submissive type herself. She’d never had any experience calling the shots or being in a dominant role. She was even uncomfortable having sex with him when she was on top.
Jerry struggled for quite a bit in trying to decide whether or not he even wanted to share his fantasy with his wife. What eventually tipped the scales was the fact that he found himself fantasizing about it way too often, aiming to gratify his desire through femdom erotica and porn.
He could feel the effect this was having on his relationship. He became a bit more withdrawn, less connective with his wife, whom he already felt was more like a roommate to him than a romantic partner. But what really scared him was that he was beginning to realize that the longer (and harder) he tried to repress the idea, the more it grew inside him.
He knew deep down things simply couldn't continue how they were.
So that's what finally gave him the courage to bring the idea up to his meek wife, Leanne.
Over the last two decades, my career was spent studying, learning about, and professionally helping people navigate their relationship problems. That's what allowed to me to "unlock the secrets" of (aka understand the psychology behind) the female mind.
Is it ever!
