Be Careful What You Wish For – How I lost My Wife To The Lifestyle 4.4/5 (37)

The following account was written by someone who goes by the name of Bound2bMine. The story itself is highly erotic if you’re someone who fantasizes about being cuckolded without limits. In fact I would wager that it’ll be impossible for you to have read it without having felt a rush of blood down below at some point.

That said, the ending is harsh and definitive, but nonetheless very informative regarding the dangers of exploring the lifestyle without boundaries. For more information on how to find out if your wife would leave you for her lover when exploring this lifestyle, be sure to read this article: Will Your Wife Leave You For Her Lover?


I met my wife when she was in her 20's. She was very mature for her age. I was 10 yrs older than her and divorced and we hit it off right from the start. She was a hot little thing with a very friendly attitude, she was the life of the party. She was a bit of a pot head, but had a good head on her shoulders. I would later find out that she was a bit adventurous, or slutty whatever you want to call it and by age 18 had already been with 30 guys.

So we dated for like 4 years and had one breakup where she ran off with an ex-boyfriend to Jamaica for a week. This is where my feeling of sharing her started I think.

All I could think about was her and her younger ex-boyfriend fucking her every night. Like I said this is where I think my desires to share her started. She came back and we eventually got back together and married. She was 23-24 by then.

I was happy but I still had that fantasy of sharing her. She got lots of attention from men so that helped fuel my fantasy at the time. She got pregnant and we had a child. The fantasy was on hold while she was pregnant. After the baby was born I brought the fantasy up again. She was against it at first but slowly warmed up to the idea.

By this time she was like 25-26 when she started playing with other men. It included men from a young guy who was 19 to an older guy who was in his 50's.

The young guy was not good in bed and it was a one time thing but it broke the ice.

Now the older guy was an interesting scenario. He was a 52 yr old business owner that owned a business right next to a part-time job she had. He was friends with the owner of the place that my wife worked, so he frequently would visit. He had money and would often speak to my wife. He let her drive his new corvette one day and shortly after asked her out on a date and she agreed.

They went out to dinner and to a strip club then to his home. This guy is middle eastern and had a reputation for being a womanizer. I have to tell you this guy was not attractive at all but had that sort of no bullshit attitude about him. This became a regular thing for a while where he would buy her things in exchange for sex.

Now the one thing that really stuck in my mind was that she told me one time that he ripped off his condom and told her don’t worry I wont get you pregnant (she was not on the pill at the time maybe he was fixed). But he came inside her. Something so hot for me to know that an older guy had just cum inside my wife. He was like a sugar-daddy type for her. There was something extremely hot for me knowing that in a way she was being used. This went on for a few months.

Next there was a Latin guy she had like a one time thing with and another guy she met through that same part time job; the other guy was also a one or two time thing.

There was also I guy I introduced her to who was older in his 40's. They never really hit it off but I think he did eat her pussy once.

Oh and I almost forgot through the old sugar-daddy guy she met the owners of a strip club and they offered her a part-time job at the door. She took the job as she thought it would be fun. Shortly after they asked her if she wanted to strip. She never agreed; she said she didn’t have enough self confidence for that.

You know it's funny with no ground rules as we had I never encouraged her to do it. Who knows where that would have led. She only worked at the place for like two weeks.

At this point she decided she wanted to get more career oriented. She got a job working for a governmental agency. It was a big office that housed many departments and had a constant flow of men. While there she met this guy, we will call him J1. He was married but sort of a ladies men. He sort of had a steady thing with her for like a few months. He would follow her home and they would have a quick fuck. This guy was well hung, according to her like 9 inches and she told me once he had a perfect dick.

The one thing that stands out about this guy is that one time I came home and she managed to save his condom with his cum still in it. I was inexperienced and had no idea what to do with it. LOL This went on for a few months but she started to feel bad because he was married and she hated being the other woman.

Then something unexpected happened that caught me off guard but was very hot. There came a time that she had a chance to go for a better job within the same office but working for a contractor for that same office. So she applied for the job and she had to meet with the CEO of the contracting company. He was a black guy in his 40's.

This is what stands out to me. She was to meet this guy at a hotel in the restaurant for the interview. I remember that it took a while and I eventually called her. She answered and said sorry it's taking so long, he is showing me how to negotiate. I thought it was a strange answer but at the time didn't think much of it. Later that day when she came home she said that he asked her to come to his room to sign some papers and that she ended up giving him a blow job.

(So I have to stop here and say isn’t this kind of odd? Why would a CEO of a company take a chance like that unless it was expressed in some way. Am I wrong here? She later said that she felt pushed to do it and later that year he came into town and she did it again with him. According to her only a blow job again. This whole scenario seemed strange. I mean not only what I detailed above but why would he only settle for a blow job. I think more happened. Of course I never pushed for an answer because I just wanted to continue the ride.)

After this there were a couple of other men but they where mostly one time things.

None of the guys knew that I was aware of her playing around. They all thought she was cheating on me. It was easier to find guys that way she did not want to do the bar stranger thing. So at that time I never got to watch. It was her playing on her own and me just hearing the details. This went on for 5 yrs off and on.

At this point I thought I had it made a nice family a young sexy hot wife who was all about our family at home and fucking other men outside the home. By the way no one knew about our lifestyle not her family or mine. We kept it all very discreet.

9 Comments

  • DAE

    Reply Reply March 3, 2018

    Very similar as to what happened to me. It is hard to get into a relationship again once this door is opened.

  • Wanderer

    Reply Reply March 10, 2018

    Wow. Eerily similar to me, but with a number of girlfriends. I’d encourage them to sample other lovers and sure enough, they’d get hooked on a superior brother and that was all she wrote for my being cuckolded.

    I’ve tried going back to just 1-on-1 relationships, but it always ends up being uncovered somehow, some way that I’m a cuck at heart. I wish society would just allow us and this lifestyle to have its day in the sun already. So many of us men have taken to it like fish to water, so what’s the big worry?

  • worshipu9

    Reply Reply April 29, 2018

    My wife had a three year relationship with a younger, fitter, harder and bigger Black Man. It was a love affair and she cut me of sex completely. However, i loved it, it feed all my twisted fantasies of humiliation etc. It was hot24/7
    I was lucky. He wanted her to leave me but she refused. We are still together after 24 years

    • ddog

      Reply Reply June 6, 2018

      Wow hot story I love the fact that another man could get your wife pregnant but what’s more of s turn on is if she stays with you. I love watching my wife get fucked along with the other man enjoying my wife’s thick wet pussy so they can enjoy life pussy is the best thing on this planet long live wet pussy

  • Bound2bMine

    Reply Reply May 12, 2018

    Thanks for the comments since its my story. Still so very hot. The memories still get me so hard.

  • SissyBoiCNJ

    Reply Reply August 8, 2018

    Thank you for sharing your story. Cuckolding is definitely one of those kinks where the fantasy is very different than the reality. While everyone is different it’s good to hear the risks that come with the lifestyle.

    I wish you the best moving forward.

  • Robert

    Reply Reply September 25, 2018

    My wife and I do the swinger thing and have another couple that we’ve been with for years. We all trade off for a week at a time were she lives with the other guy and his wife lives with me.
    She likes to tell me shes his wife and is going to divorce me. She tells me to stay with my new wife and be happy.During our last exchange it was for about a week and half and they had us over for dinner. It was strange to watch my wife be with him and acting like they were really married.

    This was such a huge turn on for me and Ill tell you our sex life is super hot. My wife asked them if they were gonna ever have children and they said yes in fact we have already started trying.

    I had to wait a few more days before my real wife came back home to ask her if it was true. She said “no not at all, but I knew it would really turn you on”. I asked if she was still taking the pill and she said yes why do you want me to stop?. I wasnt sure how to respond, she then asked if it would turn me on more knowing she was no longer on the pill ans with him. I told her yes and she said OK and went to the bathroom and threw all her pills in the trash. That was last Wed.

    The way it has always worked for us is we all had open communication and agreed not to hide anything from one another. No one would ever be asked to do anything they didnt want to do.

    So I can sort of see simularites with your story.

    My wife jokes with me all the time and likes to toy with me and most of the time I cant tell when she is.

    Theres a whole other side to this with his wife when shes with me but to much to write at this time.

  • Elli Sanders

    Reply Reply November 22, 2018

    OMG! So freak’n hot!!!

    I’ve always dreamt of being a hotwife to a cuck…

    I play around like that with some boyfriends and “bull” friends of mine, but it’s not “real” “real”… Too many quotes.

    But yeah I’m not sure if I ever will get married or settle down with one dude. But who knows, if I do I want them to be down for this lifestyle.

    • Robert

      Reply Reply November 26, 2018

      Dont change for anyone friends, family, lovers should accept you for you.
      Its not always an easy life style but its fun and exciting.

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