Frequently Asked Questions

How does this work? +

Here on my site, I offer do-it-yourself guides, which you can think of as manuals designed to help you navigate a minefield, and I offer one-on-one help in the form of Email Consulting Packages, where I actually walk ahead of you in the unique minefield you're facing telling you how and when and where to step in order to successfully get across unscathed. Which level of help would benefit you most depends on the auxiliary factors at play in your situation, and on your own personal preferences.

For example, some guys feel as though their situation is pretty straightforward and therefore prefer to try and do things on their own with as little help as possible. Others though would rather not take any chances on making an already challenging situation worse and would prefer to have me “by their side” every step of the way.

If you choose the Email Consulting Package route, after you purchase, you'll be immediately redirected to an online relationship assessment asking you to provide some details about your situation (no personal identifying information required). I will do a complete profile of your relationship and where you stand in regards to making your fantasy happen. It will outline any advantages you have as well as disadvantages you have and the obstacles you'll need to overcome.

You'll be provided with a Personalized Cuckold/Hotwife Plan™ that details how you'll want to move forward and the best steps you can take in order to do that, based on your preferences and your wife's personality and resistance style.

Once your cuckold/hotwife consulting is underway, you can use your follow-up e-mails to ask further questions as needed.

That means you’ll get continued consulting advice along the way to help you when you need it most. Here’s the good thing about this:

Emails that you send to me do NOT count. In other words, you are welcome to send me as many emails and updates as you’d like, free of charge. The only emails that count towards your consulting package are full-length, advice e-mails that I send back to you.

So as an example, you can send me five e-mail messages giving me more information or updates on your situation, and the only one that counts towards your package will be the one you receive from me in return, with the recommendations and advice.

Quick clarifications on the advice also do NOT count, nor does an e-mail in which we celebrate making any kind of progress.

How long do I have to use my services? +

Your purchased email consultations are available to you for one full year after the purchase date, allowing you plenty of time to make your fantasy happen at your desired pace, and allowing you the option to save some of your extra emails for future issues that may arise. Many clients choose to save one or two emails on how to deepen or enrich their fantasy once it gets underway.

Why do I need a consultant and how can I fit it into my budget? +

This fantasy of yours, the desire you have inside to make it happen—think about when you first realized it was a turn on for you…perhaps it was only some weak wish you had, maybe even one you were hesitant to admit to yourself…and think about how it’s now become a full-fledged and hard-on desire…one that isn’t going away.

Think about how over time it’s only gotten more pronounced, louder, bigger, how you can sometimes get consumed by it.

Think about how the longer you go without taking steps to actually do something about it that it just sits under the surface repressed, unfulfilled, and because of that—it starts to eat away at you.

The urges you have find other negative ways to express themselves, and your relationship starts to suffer because of repressed sexual and emotional desire. It becomes harder (and easier) to hide who you really are, and you unintentionally start to create distance in your relationship by escaping into the porn world.

I want you to know that you don’t need to be controlled by that fear any longer. And whatever is holding you back, be it yourself or your wife's reasons, they don't have to anymore because now you can finally start doing the right things in the right way.

And if you're thinking my Email Consulting Packages are a lot of money, I understand. However...if you honestly KNEW—not just hoped, not just believed, but confidently KNEW you had the key to making your fantasy come true—how much money would you be willing to spend?

Odds are that it would certainly be more than what I charge. At least that's what most clients say.


Is my purchase secure & guaranteed? +

You have the option of paying either through Paypal or Stripe; information is NOT stored, which means your financial information is 100% safe.

When it comes to not wasting your money, I offer 60 day money-back guarantees on all my products and services. Your satisfaction, along with helping you get the results you want, are of the utmost importance to me. That's why I try to make it such that there's absolutely no risk to you when it comes to enlisting my help!

Can I pay anonymously and without my wife finding out? +

I take discretion very seriously, and that's why  you can pay in multiple ways.

Option 1) use a paypal account if you have one, or create your own if you don't. All charges appear on your credit card bill as "PAYPAL *APOTHEOSISM".

Option 2) use a credit or debit card if you'd rather not use or create a PayPal account. Any charges appear on your credit card bill as "APOTHEOSISM".

Option 3) Pay anonymously and without your wife knowing. Use cash to purchase a prepaid Visa/MasterCard/Amex gift card and pay with that. When you have the gift card, simply click on the buy now button, and pay with either Stripe or PayPal, entering whatever information you choose. You don't even have to enter your real billing address.

Option 4) Pay anonymously and without your wife knowing by using cryptocurrency. Contact me using the "Leave a Message" widget in the bottom right hand corner of the screen for details about paying with cryptocurrency.

Like I said, I take discretion very seriously. If you have ANY trouble at all, please let me know and I can help.

Do you work internationally? +

Absolutely! In addition to clients in the United States, I have worked with clients from all over the world including, but not limited to, Canada, United Kingdom, France, Australia, Vietnam (pretty cool, right?), Denmark, and Ireland, just to name a few.

When can I expect a response? +

Quality is very important to me and I know it’s important to you. Because I'm just one person and many clients are in need, I can only take a limited number of new clients each week (I'm only human!). Personalized Cuckold/Hotwife Plans are completed within 2-4 business days, on average, depending on demand. Therefore, I recommend you sign up sooner rather than later and don’t wait any longer than you've already been waiting. If you are in a hurry, you'll have the option to have your plan bumped to the front of the line by purchasing a first priority service package for a one-time non-refundable fee of $35 (details provided after checkout).

All other emails are answered in order of receipt, within 2-3 business days, similar to “making an appointment.” If you require faster response times, contact me after your purchase and let me know.

It had been a long time since my wife had been sexually pleased (partly due to my size, partly due to performance issues), and I really really wanted her to take on a lover, for her pleasure and my own voyeuristic tendencies. She wasn't open to that idea at all though. I did get her to be willing to let me use a strap-on which worked in the beginning but lost it's appeal to her after a short time. We became more and more distant due to having less and less sex. That's when I decided to enlist the cuck consultant's  help. With our first email he had pinned my problem! I started immediately re-working my situation with the recommended changes and within a week we were able to talk about my fantasy without her getting upset! Not only that, but I got her to admit she was into it! From there it was all downhill (in a good way). It's like the beast was unleashed and I couldn't have done it without him. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!


“I was convinced I'd never be able to get my wife into my fantasy. Then I found Dr. 36. He has been a godsend to our relationship, and helping me with step by step advice that is well researched, empathetic, and effective. He gave me a method that worked for my relationship and wife, and encouraged me to stay the course. Don’t think about this twice, reach out to Dr. 36. YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE!”


(This is a screenshot from an email a client sent me)

(This is a screenshot from an email a client sent me)

"I want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for your help! I had no idea how to bring my fantasy up to my wife, and it never felt like the right time. I would read forums about how other guys were living the lifestyle I wanted to, but didn't have the guts to try. I was happy in my relationship overall but this was making me miserable. I happened to find The Cuckold Consultant by chance on Google as I was searching for ways to solve my dilemma. At first I was hesitant, but as I read the different testimonials and read some of his articles, I decided to give it a try and purchased a Personalized Cuckold/Hotwife Plan™. Everything in the plan was straight forward and simple to follow. After working up the courage to bring my fantasy up, I finally did it without her being upset at me. We had some future discussions about how she didn't understand it, but I was able to handle that just fine with the information he gave me. Now, we actually go out together (but separate) to bars while I watch her flirt with other man. Now it's only a matter of time until she takes the next step to bring someone home! I am so thankful I found The Cuckold Consultant!”

- Wayne, California

“Don’t hesitate to purchase a Personalized Cuckold/Hotwife Plan™! It allowed me to overcome my wife's objections and now she's slept with two other men so far! His advice is comprehensive and so easy to implement. Thanks for the help, Doc!”

- Harrison, Michigan

"Yea I was definitely handling her objections in the wrong way. As soon as I used some of the techniques you talked about, I could feel a shift in her attitude towards the entire fantasy. It was only about 4 or 5 weeks after I followed the methods within that I got her to agree to us looking online for a well hung guy who she'd be willing to have sex with. After that, it was all assess and elbows as they say!!"

-Pete W.

"My wife and I have been married for 24 years, and she's a fairly religious person. She's no bible thumper but she's the moral type. I was afraid to bring this idea up at first, but I decided one day I would at least try. It went down like I thought though. She didn't understand, thought I wanted to be swingers, said it was cheating, all that kind of stuff. This went on for a little until I stopped bringing it up. But then I found your site since I was searching for cuckolding stories to read. I took a look around, downloaded the free guide and since what you said in it made perfect sense I figured why not try the objection guide. Well, I'm one to be skeptical of reviews, but let me tell everyone out there, this manual is worth getting. I never thought I'd see the day where my wife was willing to go down this road with me. But here we are...she's since been on 4 dates, slept with one of them, and got to third base with another. And we can't keep our hands off each other. I'm not as religious as my wife, so instead of thanking god, I thank YOU Dr.36!"


"I finally was able to get her to go out on her own and go on a date with a guy she met online. The best part was that she said she enjoyed it and would be open to doing it again!"

EDIT: "Reconnecting with my wife after that first date was fun, but it was nothing compared to reconnecting with her after she officially fooled around with one of her dates. She gave him a blowjob in the car in the parking lot of the restaurant they had dinner in! And she swallowed. The doors that have been opened because of all this are just incredible to me, I love it, and so does she."

- Sissyhub7792