An Exclusive Interview – Theodora from

I don’t play favorites, but if I did, I can genuinely promise you that this interview would be on my favorite list. Why?

Because its all about the psychological side of experiencing sexual pleasure. And if you know anything about sexual pleasure, you know that the mind has more to do with it than the body. Our interviewee today knows this better than 99% of people out there, and she knows how to use that to simultaneously give men pleasure and get what she wants.

I want to offer you a genuine warning though…  If you’re the kind of person who enjoys dominant women, or being submissive, or being taken advantage of (consensually speaking, of course), or even if you have any traditional cuckold tendencies, BE CAREFUL reading this interview, because you will absolutely not be able to walk away from it without desiring on some kind of level to experience the psycho-sexual thrill of Psydom. And that’s a deeply pleasurable rabbit role that you can really never climb back out of.

Now that I’ve officially warned you, let’s get to know our dangerously seductive femme fatale Theodora (who is also known as The Manipulatrix™ and is so effective at what she does she has her own private cult of devotees) a little better.

The Interview

Q:  What would you say are some of the most valuable things you could provide a man who submitted to you with that he isn’t getting right now in life or his current relationship?

A: Many men fantasize about letting an alluring, assertive woman take charge. Relinquishing control can be extremely freeing, provided it is to a woman whom you trust. Submission is an outlet. I strive to be that dangerous femme fatale in which you are still willing to put your trust. As a financial dominatrix, I demand a lot, but I give a lot back to whoever is willing to build something outside of the context of our sessions.

To my best clients, I’m their mentor. I make them better men. I don’t only teach them how to financially sacrifice for a woman, I help them understand the female mind better. I often give them dating or relationship advice.

And of course, being so demanding to my clients financially speaking often make them harder workers… I don’t just manage their finances, I help them set goals for themselves and teach them to plan ahead. Let’s say it’s my way of rewarding them for their (financial) devotion to me. Like in all relationships, it’s an exchange.


Q: What makes you different from all the other female dommes out there?

A: Unlike latex-clad dominatrices who session in their dungeon, using whips and crops, I dominate with my words, my attitude, my body language, in five stars hotels, Michelin restaurants or high end designer stores, wearing haute couture clothing and Louboutin heels. I believe female supremacy can be expressed with taste and elegance, be it in the way I dress or the way I talk.

I am a true Manipulatrix in the sense that I don’t force my clients to submit like in traditional domination, I make them want to, by making it their idea. When I’ve trademarked the term to make it my brand, it wasn’t very common at all. If you searched for it on social media, there were a handful of occurrences at most. It was perfect to describe what I do.

There are many online dominatrices who, not unlike me, have traded the whips for words. But while you would encounter many hypnodommes, femdom spoiled princesses or humiliatrices on the internet, there weren’t that many manipulatrices – or dommes who would describe themselves as such.

Hypnosis is only a weapon amongst many others for me, and I don’t identify as a bratty princess who has demands nor as a lifestyle humiliatrix who’s turned on by the psychological pain she inflicts. On the contrary, I am essentially a seductress. I like dirty talking rather than verbal humiliation. Seduction is a huge part of what I do. And I’m an expert at NLP, which is also known as the science of manipulation. Hence The Manipulatrix™…


Q: You coined the term Psydom. How would you explain this to someone who had never heard the term before?

A: Psydom is the contraction of Psychological Domination. While a traditional dominatrix uses corporal punishment or ropes and chains to restrain or recondition someone physically, a psydomme uses psychological weapons such as verbal humiliation, hypnosis, NLP or non-verbal communication to change a behavior, restrain or hurt someone psychologically.

Many forms of dominations fall under the umbrella of Psydom. Hypnodommes, humiliatrices, even findommes can be considered psydommes. A lot of practices such as consensual blackmail, cuckolding, or feminization encompass an important psychological dimension.

I coined the term Psydom because I felt it was lacking. Psydom isn’t rare at all, it’s actually very common. Online domination has really exploded these past few years, and the definition of the word Dominatrix is, more than ever, bound to evolve. But the word still evokes the professional sadist who practices the art of inflicting physical pain to men in her dungeon. Psydom/psydomme felt more accurate.


Q: What was it like being the daughter of a psychologist and hypnotherapist? What role did that play in helping you be able to dominate men today in the ways they crave to be dominated?

A: It offered me an amazing insight into the human mind. From my youngest age, I was very good at reading people, and I was a good listener. I have always hated conflicts and loud, vocal arguments. I always was the quiet one in school. But that didn’t mean I was weak and powerless, on the contrary.

Although I might not have realized at first, I was constantly using NLP to solve conflicts or get what I wanted, just like my parents would do naturally during any interaction. I was extremely good at getting people on my side. It was just natural. NLP really is my mother tongue. (continue reading by clicking page 2 below).

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