An Exclusive Interview – Meet StagFtoHotwifeN  4.5/5 (4)

“I don’t think I could ever do that.” Those were the words of the happy housewife turned vixen hotwife (she goes by “N”) of the Tumblr couple StagFtoHotwifeN…until she wound up having sex with a dad from their children’s school.

In this interview, we’ll take a deeper look at how it all progressed for them since the summer of 2016, as that was when it all began. They also share some thoughts the Stag & Vixen lifestyle in general, pushing boundaries, and keeping their relationship the priority on this adventure they’re both enjoying.

And I think everyone will find the Stag “F’s” perspective on eating cum very interesting….

The Interview

Q: Can you tell us a little bit about how your wife’s interest in the hotwife lifestyle came to be? Was she resistant at first?

A: A short time after N and I had met each other for the first time I felt the need to be completely honest and open towards N about who I was, and what excited me. When it comes to the regular things in life that’s quite easy most of the time, but when it comes down to your deepest longings on the subject of sex it’s another story. N and I had both decided to leave our then current partners so that we could be together. We were both married, and both have kids. That’s probably the main reason that I felt that urge to tell her everything about me. There could be no secrets, because I had never met a woman before that felt so completely my destiny.

So therefore I also told her about my interest in cuckolding/sharing her… I also told her that I could not really relate to the humiliation part in cuckolding. She just had to know that about me, and I remember that I was very, very scared that she would leave me on the spot.

She did not… And she didn’t condemn me for it! She had very clear reservations, doubts and questions… But she didn’t close the door either. She said something like ‘I don’t think it’s for me, it is not in my fantasies, and I don’t think I could ever do that. But I’ll have an open mind and when in the future it may become an option for me than we’ll see things from there….’. That was fair enough, and I don’t think I have ever pushed her to take the plunge.

Every now and then the subject just would emerge, and her point of view was the same and that was it for quite a long time…. Then suddenly something happened.

We had been swimming at a swimming pool nearby with our kids and during that afternoon a guy eye-fucked N properly. N didn’t notice at that moment, and I told her that night. One thing let to another and we ended up having sex while she was whispering the roleplay ‘You like this? To fuck me knowing another guy was inside just a little while ago? That his cum is still there?’ …

That kind of roleplay (which we still like a lot!!!) lasted a couple of months, and then one night she suddenly asked that this role playing was all fine and exciting, but that she just couldn’t picture the way how we could ever make something like that happen for real.

I was delighted… It was her first open sign of really being interested. A couple of days after that I told her that if she really wanted to fuck another guy, than I would be really fine with that and I was convinced that I could handle it. The day after that she started sexting a guy that she had met on the internet just before getting to know me…

And then she started casually flirting with other men. That was soon resulting in her fucking a dad from school…. N finally had become a hotwife.

Quite soon after that she fucked one of our neighbours whom she had physically fancied for quite some time. She congratulated him on his birthday with a text message and told him to come get his present in one of the coming days… He couldn’t wait, haha!

Only last week on our summer holiday N has had her third lover. We ‘met’ him on Tumblr, and the match was perfect when we met in person. It was great talking to someone who is into this lifestyle as well, and on top of that has a very nice character and is very eloquent. We sure hope to see him more often in the future, he’s a very cool guy.


Q: You mention in your profile header that you had a previous Tumblr account which you ended about a year ago. How come, what happened, and what made you decide to come back?

A: Purely based on a feeling that it got out of hand, or maybe rather going into a direction that wasn’t us. At that time we found ourselves increasingly occupied by erotic things and encounters on Tumblr. And not all of that was related to the hotwife and stag lifestyle. Because of that we had some negative feelings about how things were going vs how things were supposed to go in our opinion with the blogging and interacting on Tumblr. And we noticed we didn’t see all of that eye to eye. So we felt we had to take a step back, and evaluate what was happening.

We came to the conclusion that we had to go back to the point where we were before starting blogging. From then on we got back to enjoying the thought of the lifestyle and eventually also experiencing this for real.


Q: What are 5 things you’ve learned about yourselves/ each other while taking this journey together?

A: 1) We have to talk and listen to each other all the time: Be completely open and honest, don’t have any secrets, and talk about your emotions. Because this lifestyle comes with all the negative emotions a human being can experience: fear, jealousy, sadness, anger, et cetera. You have to be prepared to deal with that.

2) We have to trust each other to the fullest. We must have faith in the love that we have for one another. Otherwise learning number 1 has no meaning.

3) We can’t be selfish. This takes more than two to tango. I as a stag need my kicks, N as the hotwife hers… we are equally important. But there is also at least one other human being involved when you bring the lifestyle into practice. He or she has feelings, and needs as well. And with that emotions… We have to consider them very well.

4) We should be respectful and discrete all the time. Even if someone wants to participate, it doesn’t mean there is a guarantee for a superb hot and passionate experience. It takes self knowledge, courage and confidence to participate in this. Lovers (even if only potential) can get insecure of the presence of me (both physically and even mentally when I’m not physically around). In the society we live in, this lifestyle is mostly condemned and a taboo. People are always subconsciously aware of that. It makes that you cannot predict how things go.

5) On top of that one should realize that circumstances beyond your control can have an influence, and have consequences for the wishes and hopes that all involved may have.


  • rebeccasoffice

    Reply Reply August 5, 2017

    Great interview. Thanks for sharing

  • John

    Reply Reply September 18, 2017

    This was a magnificent interview. It fully encapsulates all the positive, relationship-strengthening aspects of this marvelous lifestyle. As I eat this, I couldn’t help but feel happy for this couple and for the couples who read this and open their minds to how cuckolding benefits a marriage.

    Thank you!

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