An Exclusive Interview – Meet NothernUtahHotwife  4.7/5 (37)

One of the worst reactions you could ever get from your wife when you bring your cuckold/hotwife fantasy up to her is a flat out NO followed by tears.

But if you’ve been paying attention at all to the articles and free guides I have here on the website, then you should know that kind of reaction isn’t exactly uncommon for guys who are eventually SUCCESSFUL in getting their wives to embrace the cuckold or hotwife lifestyle. I mean, could you imagine your wife going from tears of hurt/anger to genuinely embracing the lifestyle to the point where she lets four college ath— …Actually, you should just read the interview. 🙂

Let’s welcome the ever so sexy Tumblr hotwife NorthernUtahHotwife, as she talks with us about her adventures and life being a hotwife.

The Interview

Q: How did you get started in the hotwife lifestyle?

A: My husband suggested having a MFM or watching me with another guy. It came up during pillow talk and I was horrified. I did not handle it well. There were tears. My husband dropped the subject.

A couple months later, I entertained the idea as part of fantasy play but my husband thought I was seriously considering it. When I told him no, there were more tears and we dropped it again.

Another couple months go by and a stranger flirted over a game of Battlefriends. My husband encouraged me to flirt back. I did reluctantly, but I enjoyed it slightly. As the flirting became more ????, I was getting extremely turned on by it. I loved the attention of another guy.

On a night I was particularly worked up, my husband convinced me to allow an AFF account to be opened. As an “ace in the hole” I had  very strict requirements. I was convinced my husband would never find “the guy” so nothing would ever happen. That backfired on me – he found the guys in a matter of days. We met face to face for lunch the next Saturday and I was having my first hotwife experience that night!


Q: What’s your current hotwife situation look like?

A: I currently have a boyfriend that I like to see multiple times a week but don’t get all the opportunities I want. I have three other guys that I like to see when I can, but opportunities are far between. I like to have MFM as often as I can, but it only happens every couple months.


Q: What are some of the reasons your husband remains monogamous?

A: Mostly jealousy on my part, but that has really reduced over the years to the point I’ve been helping look for possible playmates for him. A close second is that he really isn’t attracted to anyone else to the point that he would really want to have sex with them.


Q: What are the top 3 ways hotwifing has changed your personality?

A: 1) I have increased confidence.

2) I’m more playful.

3) I’m more liberated.


Q: What’s the most extreme thing the two of you have done while exploring this lifestyle?

A: I let four college athletes who I never met pull a train on me. I went over to meet one guy at his apartment. Two of his roommates and one additional friend were also there. After the first guy finished, the other three got their turns.


Q: Would you recommend introducing extra-marital relations to other couples, and if so, why?

A: That depends on the couple. Extra-marital relations can energize a great relationship or destroy a shaky one.


Q: What do you consider to be the biggest myth or misconception about hotwifing?

A: The biggest myth/misconception about hotwifing is that the husband of the hotwife is small dicked, submissive, inadequate, or all of the above. Strong alpha type males can enjoy the benefits of hotwifing also.


Q: Why do some couples succeed and others fail?

A: The couples that succeed have great communication and above all, they trust each other without question! As soon as doubt enters the relationship, things can go off course very quickly. Great communication can help straighten things out. Couples that fail have lost sight of the importance of their relationship. The husband might get lazy in taking care of his wife and let the other man do his job. This allows feeling for the other man to grow while feelings for the husband fade.

Or, the hotwife gets too wrapped up in NRE (New Relationship Energy) and fails to keep her husband as her number one priority. Either one can erode the bond of the relationship.


Q: What advice would you have for men whose wife wants to explore this kind of lifestyle, but the man isn’t quite sure himself?

A: My advice is DON’T DO IT! If you are not absolutely sure that you can handle the emotions that will come out of this lifestyle, don’t even start. Keep it in fantasy.


Q: What advice would you give to a wife whose husband has a hotwife fantasy, yet is hesitant to explore it with him?

A: I would tell her to listen carefully and fully consider the possibility. It doesn’t do any harm to think about it. If fact, it will make their bond stronger as they have just built a little extra trust with the husband. Play with the fantasy a bit. Pick an acquaintance that the wife is attracted to, and incorporate that person into fantasy talk. Use a blindfold and a realistic dildo to simulate an experience with a new man. Dress a bit sexier for outings with the husband. Enjoy the extra attention from the males, even if you aren’t particularly attracted to them. Consider a MFM for the first experience to stay grounded to the husband.

I'm sure I wasn't the only one who came away thinking NotherUtahHotWife is a truly intelligent, confident woman with a clear head on her shoulders and a big sex drive inside her. I'd like to thank NothernUtahHotwife for participating in this interview with us and sharing her experiences. If you haven't already, check out her Tumblr at, especially if couples who post real pictures of their real experiences is your thing.

If you have any other questions for them, feel free to ask her below!

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  • Keith

    Reply Reply September 26, 2017

    The Interview was very insightful. I hope to always be able to hear and learn more from others.

  • F

    Reply Reply November 22, 2017

    I hope my wife opens up to the idea too. So far, she’s resoundingly against the idea

  • terry

    Reply Reply February 3, 2018

    Wonderful to hear how it can work out for a couple

  • terry

    Reply Reply February 3, 2018

    Wonderful to hear how it can work out for a couple

  • Jihn

    Reply Reply April 26, 2018

    Nice to hear a woman’s point of view on subject , and share with us ,love her to talk to my wife , she sounds intelligent.

  • Abdul Abbasi

    Reply Reply November 22, 2018

    Very helpful specially who have cucold fantasy but wife resist.I learnt much from article

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