Cornish Vixen And Her Stag BLR

An Exclusive Interview – Meet “A-Cornish-Vixen-And-Her-Stag-BLR”  4.7/5 (16)

Want to know what it is about the Stag & Vixen hotwifing lifestyle that so many couples enjoy? The Vixen in the Tumblr couple A-Cornish-Vixen-And-Her-Stag-BLR does a really great job of articulating just how enjoying this lifestyle can be, and what she enjoys about it.

They’re having so much fun with it in fact that she even got a Vixen tattoo.

Vixen Tattoo

In her own words, “It’s discrete enough for just myself and hubby to know what it represents; to anyone else, it’s just a nice picture.”

Let’s take a peak into their experiences, and as a bonus you’ll also get some great advice for living the Stag & Vixen lifestyle.

The Interview

Q: How did you get started in the Stag & Vixen lifestyle?

A: We dipped a toe in the swinging scene about 7 years ago and at that stage weren’t altogether sure what we were into, we just knew we wanted to try something new and exciting. After a few years break we decided to dabble again and this time we discovered the stag and hotwife scenario and realized “This is us!”


Q: Do you have a long-standing lover or multiple lovers?

A: In the beginning we were lucky enough to find a guy who turned out to be a regular lover for us and at that stage we didn’t feel the need to find anyone else. However, his circumstances changed and we ended up on the hunt again. This time we are keen to have a small variety of lovers to add to some excitement and spice to our incredible experiences. We are  having lots of fun “interviewing” prospective lovers 🙂


Q: What are the 5 biggest mistakes you would say beginners could make when living out their hotwifing fantasies?

A: 1) Lack of communication – communication between partners is key when embarking on pursuing the hot wife fantasy.

2) Having high expectations – when experimenting  with the hot wife scenario expectations can be high, however these expectations can be dashed due to all sorts of reasons. Our advice would be to live in the moment, not for the moment.

3) Rushing into it – there is plenty of time to be choosy, don’t rush into anything just because you are eager to live out the fantasy. We always strive to find someone we feel a connection with and make time to have a social meet with them first. Also make sure both partners are ready for the step of making the fantasy a reality.

4) Not setting out rules and boundaries – discussing rules and boundaries are extremely important for a meet to go smoothly. Partners MUST discuss their boundaries with each other and communicate these to their lover to avoid awkwardness when you are “in the moment.”

5) Failing to make an effort – when being intimate with anyone it is always important to be hygienic, clean, and dressed to impress. I enjoy the whole preparation process just as much as anything else. Having your stag help you to get ready and pick out some sexy underwear is also a major part of the experience.


Q: If you had it to do all over again, would you still go into the cuckolding/hotwifing lifestyle?

A: I would absolutely do it again. We have grown so much as a couple and our love for each other has ballooned to the most dizzy heights. My experiences as a hot wife have boosted my self confidence to no end and I feel like a new woman. My self esteem has rocketed and my relationship with my husband is better than ever.

That being said the hot wife lifestyle should no way be a source of marriage guidance for failing relationships. You must be in a 100% committed and secure relationship in order for this lifestyle to work and be anything but amazing.


Q: How did you first feel about your stag’s fantasy when he shared it with you, and what made you willing to try it out with him?

A: Because we had entered the scene as tentative swingers in the first instance the progression to the hot wife scenario was an organic step forward into what we wanted more of. My stag explained what it was about and how it turned him on. The cuckolding fantasy was nothing like what we wanted so the discovery of hotwifing was a true breakthrough for us.


Q: What kinds of things were you hesitant or worried about when you first decided maybe you would try out this lifestyle?

A: I was worried at giving my stag the good show he wanted and him enjoying himself as much as I was. I was also hesitant at the way I looked without clothes on, but back then we were finding our feet and my confidence wasn’t as full as it is now. I now know that we are each responsible for our own enjoyment during the meet and we have communicated so much to each other we know how to please each other without doubt or hesitation.


Q: What 5 tips, tricks, or hints could you give to men out there whose wives are a little hesitant or resistant to indulging in this fantasy?

A: The subject of hotwifing is a delicate one and should be handled intelligently and openly. I would advise to maybe introduce a sex toy into the bedroom as a pretense to being another guy. Also encourage your prospective hot wife to talk as if her stag is someone else during sex; this can be a huge turn on for both partners and can get her used to the idea of being with another guy. Something we have had fun with is we each have a Tumblr account and frequently send each other pictures, gifs and videos telling each other how it makes us hot and imagining ourselves in the roles.

We also play the “would you?” game when we are out where we spy a fit guy and tell each other how it would be if he were to join us. Buying sexy underwear can be a good “icebreaker” as it helps the hot wife feel wanted and desired, not to mention damn sexy.


Q: What was your best/most memorable experience as a vixen hotwife?

A: Having just re-entered the scene after a break we have not really accumulated lots of memories; all I can say is what I enjoy as a hot wife. I like the build up to a meet, the naughty flirtatious texts between me and a prospective lover followed by the social meet where I can flirt even more and get excited by what is to come at a play date meet. I love the way I can dress up to impress my stag and lover and I especially enjoy the reaction I get when they see me in one of my many hot sexy outfits. I like to be center of attention in the bedroom and love the feel of 2 men caressing and indulging in the moment. I like the cheeky smiles and glances I give my stag knowing he is totally turned on and I especially enjoy the aftermath of a meet when my stag reclaims me and we are both sweating with desire for each other.


Q: What are some of your hobbies you enjoy when you’re not in between the sheets with your stag or another man?

A: I like to try and keep fit however I do also like a cheeky glass of wine and a good catch up with friends. I also like walking the dog, enjoying our beautiful surroundings, making new friends and sharing experiences. I do a bit of modeling as a hobby so I enjoy taking pictures with hubby who is a photographer. This sometimes spills into our naughty private life and has been a source of great entertainment.

I'd like to thank A-Cornish-Vixen-And-Her-Stag-BLR for participating in this interview with us and sharing their experiences. If you haven't already, check out their Tumblr at if you're into erotic content that's centered around the Stag & Vixen lifestyle. If you have any other questions for them, feel free to ask them below!

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  • Emmy

    Reply Reply December 17, 2017

    So glad I stumbled across this. Just embarking and have found this situation to be more suited to my needs.
    Thanks for sharing xxx

    • Ronn

      Reply Reply September 14, 2018

      Thanks for something I didn’t know that was so nice to find ppl that feel like me. For some time now I new I didn’t like the cuckold liking my girl done was great . Now I can gather what I am an find someone. Not knowing who I was made it impossible to get to a level of a relationship I deaire. Thanks again this an otter coming forward with the story help me so much

  • Rod

    Reply Reply November 8, 2018

    What ages of husband a wife are into this scenario

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