An Exclusive 3rd Interview – Rebecca’s Response To Her Ex!

Most people find it not only fascinating but incredibly hot to know the “behind the scenes” details of a hotwife’s personal life. It adds a dimension of realness to it all, to her, and in turn that realness just makes her and her story more erotic, more appealing so to speak.

And out of all the interviews I’ve done, Rebecca from has been one of the most open and candid women regarding not only her sex life, but her personal life as well.

If you’ve read Rebecca’s first interview, you most likely walked away feeling like you knew her for being more than just a famous internet hotwife. And if you read the special interview with her Ex-Husband, than you would have gotten to know her from a completely different perspective, even before she was a hotwife. Her Ex shared some very interesting things about her and her journey, or rather their journey I should say.

But…he only shared his perspective. And as interesting as his perspective is/was, the whole story wouldn’t really be complete without Rebecca having a chance to respond to it all, and so that’s exactly what the subject of this interview is.

Below, you’re going to find out even more about Rebecca’s own personal life and her hotwife lifestyle. Does she still talk with her ex? What do her friends and family think now? How does her current boyfriend feel about all this? Is she still planning on continuing being a hotwife? Was it all worth it?

(You’ll also find out at the end of the interview the real reason behind Rebecca doing this followup. Hint: it has something to do with a pretty shocking photo her ex sent.)

For anyone who wants to know just how far a shy, conservative wife can go into the hotwife lifestyle once she takes the plunge, and where all that leads, you absolutely have to read this interview. So I’ll leave you to it!


The Interview

Q: What happened after your ex-husband’s interview with The Cuckold Consultant?

A: Well quite frankly I was surprised he did the interview.  I hadn’t asked him about it and when I read it, I felt it was done quite honestly, but there were some things that surprised me and that I had never thought of.  We have a great relationship and we had some very honest moments together.  What I did not know is that this was all part of an evolving master plan for him to really make me into his own personal sexy and sexual housewife.

He told me that at first it was all about me being his sexual fantasy and that because I grew up in a fairly conservative family and was very innocent sexually, he saw that it was a good opportunity to use our love and mutual trust in each other to mold me into the woman he desired.  And that is fair.  I molded him into the man I wanted as well.  I turned him into a GQ guy that he was not, buying all his clothes, taking him to cooking lessons, etc.  He himself is a super nerdy physician and now he is quite a desirable guy to all women even though he is now in his 50s.  I would say that together we made each other more attractive to each other as well as to our extramarital lovers.

So in the end he liked getting the real story out there and letting everyone know the husband’s side of how I came to be since so many people ask what it took for me to become the person I have become.

After both of our interviews it just helped us to both talk more about it and assure ourselves that what we did was not done with malice towards each other and that the other did not feel hurt by the actions or intent of the other.  In relationships we have small secrets and tricks we use to manipulate the other and it is okay.  Your partner will always learn whatever insecurities, desires, fears, weaknesses you have, and you have to hope they will use them to help you more than hurt you.

In an odd way, we love each other more than ever.


Q: What did you think about the reactions people had about your interviews and separation?

A: Well people were mostly supportive.  There were people who said they were sad to hear that we were no longer together.  I think this fell into two camps:  1) There are the fans of the cuckold lifestyle who believe and are worried that I will quit being a naughty cheating woman now that we are no longer together and that my website ( would die and 2) There are those who feel bad that I left my husband without someone to love.

To the first group, I say not to worry.  I still get to be a naughty cheating woman.  My boyfriend likes me to do that.  He wants me to be a woman who can’t get enough sex even if it isn’t with him.  He believes the day I stop being naughty is the day I am sexually fulfilled and won’t need him anymore.  He enjoys letting me have my independence to experience this lifestyle and encourages me to keep performing.  I’d say the only difference is he is okay with me swinging with all ethnicities.

To the second group, please understand this was the most amicable and mutual break-up.  We both love each other a great deal and had great moments together.  We don’t want to tarnish those moments because we both have changed and each of us felt like the direction we were going was not going to please the other.  I have a new guy.  That is true.  But he has a very beautiful younger lady that loves him and that he loves very much in the way that I loved him back when we first got married.  I definitely don’t need that kind of love anymore, but he does and he deserves to have it.

They say in a marriage that women change and men don’t.  That is exactly what happened and we both understand that.

There probably is a third faction that thinks we just have an odd relationship.  That is true. But it is a happy one. It works for us.  I have lots of friends who have marriages and relationships that ended in a hostile or unhappy manor.  I’d rather have an odd relationship than an unhappy one that poisons everyone around you.

Again, I want to repeat that you should not be sad.  We are happier than ever.  EVERYONE is happier.  We are probably happier than many people who are still married.  Better to be in my situation today unhappy and unfulfilled.  Please be happy for me, my ex and all those who rely on us.

For those who believe this lifestyle or BBC made this happen, I want to tell you this.  We got into the lifestyle and BBC hotwife world because our relationship was unfulfilled.  We had already accomplished what we wanted in marriage and wanted more or something else that we could not provide the other.  As you will read later, it wasn’t because my husband did not want to be a cuckold or that he was mad at me or felt humiliated.  He enjoyed it, but he also wanted other things and did not need the cuckold lifestyle anymore.  He still enjoys the thought of it and wanted other things.

The cuckold hot wife lifestyle allowed us to follow our dreams.  It did not break them. So be happy and not sad for us.


Q: So what is your relationship like with your ex now?  Do you guys even have a relationship?

A: We probably see each other for coordinating things at least once a week.  People who have known us for years on a casual basis probably don’t even notice the difference.  It is not like we went out and publicly announced this to the world in a Christmas card.  Being in Southern California probably makes it easier too.  He has always been in the presence of younger and beautiful women who would like to get into the acting world.


  • d

    Reply Reply January 15, 2018

    Nice to hear from Rebecca again. Good to hear honest answers to questions. Still it looks like another situation where things got “bigger” than both of them and they went in different directions emotionaly and otherwise. Another example of “be careful playing with fire “

    • RebeccasOffice

      Reply Reply January 15, 2018


      I see what you are thinking, but you keep trying to pigeonhole us. This interview was partially done for people like yourself who think cuckolding made us break our marriage. We already had issues that made us get into the life. We had other interests that went beyond sex that kept us apart. It didn’t get too big for us. It just evolved in a beautiful way because we let it be that way. We stayed together longer because we didn’t want one of to be happy without the other being happy. Finally he fell in love with someone wonderful as did I. We waited to make sure each relationship was sincere and honest before finding love elsewhere. I look at myself as being lucky enough to have found romantic love twice in my life.

  • AcquiredTasteNY

    Reply Reply January 15, 2018

    Love this interview. Absolutely perfect! I enjoy reading these interviews and this one did not disappoint. I would definitely like to thank Rebecca for sharing with us and giving thoughtful insight into the lifestyle. Also, admittedly, I would love to meet Rebecca.

  • RebeccasFan

    Reply Reply January 15, 2018

    Amazing interview! I really do hope that this is NOT the last we hear of her on here. Perhaps a calendar or even a pictorial section for us to see her and other photos of famous Adultresses with cuckolds.

    As for the shocking photo, that was a great touch. I’d like to see more writing on her as well as on him.

  • CuckMeBecca

    Reply Reply January 15, 2018

    The best. I hope to see and hear more. I think you two have redefined the cuckold world

    • Rebecca

      Reply Reply February 26, 2018

      Thanks. Maybe my members can send me pictures of their cocks and dedications to me.

      • Wanderer

        Reply Reply March 13, 2018

        Wow, now THAT is a great idea! Cuckoldresses like Rebecca have helped most of us white guys be more proud of our undersized cocks.

  • d

    Reply Reply January 16, 2018

    Hello Rebecca No pigeonhole A longtime fan since the early days and before your website following your escapes for many years now. Following other couples too like Janet Mason who chose to expand and explore life. Something of an explorer here too. Happy to know that you and AL are both happy still in your new lives.

  • creolelad2009

    Reply Reply January 16, 2018

    Great interview. Loved to the total factor of honesty involved here. And as always, Rebecca gives vivid insight to the ideologies of hubbies and wives who surrender to BBC guys like myself. Sometimes you have to lose in order to gain. This article proves that statement correct. Love it.

    • rebeccasoffice

      Reply Reply January 16, 2018

      Thank you! Yes, sometimes a small step back helps you move forward. I was able to take the risk with the support of the person who could potentially get hurt, but in the end it was all wonderful.

      Thanks Creolelad, you have always been a supportive person when others might not agree.

  • Nowayjosay

    Reply Reply January 16, 2018

    Maybe it’s me but ex cucks package seems pretty decent

    • RebeccasOffice

      Reply Reply January 17, 2018

      Yes and when he is hard, his size and girth are probably considered larger than average.

      I think a fallacy is that people think that when women cheat that they leave their husband for something bigger and like to humiliate their husband’s size. It is even probably exaggerated by the fact I am no longer with him and am with a black man. That is not the reason why we are no longer together. Let that be a message to everyone. Size does not matter unless you are too big or too small.

  • Daniel Servus

    Reply Reply January 17, 2018

    Rebecca, Great interview! I am curious, if your husband had went the complete opposite direction and begged to stay married to you, pleading to accept whatever terms you and your Boyfriend imposed on him, even agreeing to go total cuckold and accept getting no sex from you if that is what was demanded, do you think the two of you would still be together?

    • rebeccasoffice

      Reply Reply January 18, 2018

      Another great question. I think between this question and the last one that I have the makings of a new interview. Sorry to make you wait on how I will answer this one. Maybe we should start a cuckold Q&A column here if Dr. 36 thinks it would be a good idea.

  • Mr cool zeo

    Reply Reply January 17, 2018

    Hi, My name is Zeo I read all three interview Dr.36 and thank you. If I am not mistaken I meet Al her husband in AVN award 10 years back. She is so hot and her husband at that time trade her pictures with so many. She is hot and even I told him that ‘why she is not in regular movies’. Both are actually real support for each other the way they have help each other to litup their sexual fantasies. Her boyfriend is doing right thing by sharing her because Rebecca cannot be handle by one person and that is for sure wht I have learned and experiance @ AVN awards in Vegas. All the best to her.

    • rebeccasoffice

      Reply Reply January 18, 2018

      Oh you did meet him? That timing sounds about right. He stopped going around 2012 but I do know he went around 2014

  • Linda Martinez

    Reply Reply January 18, 2018

    I am in show business and love all three interviews, thanks Dr.36. She is hot and fine thing is she is keepiung her young and fit by enjoying proper sex life
    with her parteners. If you want to know more about me shot e-mail and I will send you my info. As per Rebecca keep it up. Want to read more about your exciting sex experaiances here with Dr. 36.

    • rebeccasoffice

      Reply Reply January 19, 2018

      Alright Linda, I will bite since it appears you want to find cuckolds. I am working with the Cuck Consultant on a project that might be right up your alley. Not sure how to write you back, but you can write me at [email protected] so I can fill you in.

  • Muhammad El Akhdar

    Reply Reply January 28, 2018

    I am from Saint Vincent West Indies islands and following Dr.36 and thankful to him for such winderful interviews.If you are traveling here my doors are open just drop line to me. Hope to read more exciting experiances especially with your lovers and husband. Your husband picture is indeeed shocking.

  • Jennifer Buergermeister

    Reply Reply February 3, 2018

    I love all three interviews Dr.36 and she is so hot. I wonder why is not present itself in AVN awards? With interviews me and my partner especially like photo of her hubby, really it is funny and strange. I wish both all the very best.

    • Rebecca

      Reply Reply February 26, 2018

      I went back in 2010 but it truly was overwhelming. Ididn’t even go as an artist but more as a fan. I was a little shocked and scared when people recognized me through my sunglasses.

      It is just not me and I think people really prefer me to stay as a complete amateur

  • Mrs Dyer Amy

    Reply Reply February 4, 2018

    Excellent interview Dr.36 , thinking of becoming member of her Website. I dont understand that even they departed why hubby cant become part of her life style and that will be more juicy and so hot communication video between two and her new partner in hot situation. Want to hear more about her hot experiances. Hope you will convey this massage.

    • Rebecca

      Reply Reply February 26, 2018

      I will talk to the Cuckold Consultant about this. I feel like this might have been addressed in the first two interviews. Maybe you can submit a few questions here to help me exactly describe what it is that is confusing. There are specifics not talked about here but maybe played out more on my site or blog.

  • meena chouksey

    Reply Reply February 6, 2018

    I am from India and following her on Twitter. She is the wife wwho is example for so many of us that hot sex can keep us fit and going. Thank you Dr.36 for all these three interviews because neither we get her Video or nor her website properly here. Twitter is only thing by which we can know her. Want to here more juicy detail and her past career as a stripper because I am trying my best to convince my hubby for Job in local Bar in New Delhi. Hope she will share more with us Twitter Audience.

    • Rebecca

      Reply Reply February 26, 2018

      Sorry, Twitter is just a communication vehicle and not a platform for commerce. Unfortunately for you, India is a big scam place and because of it the payment providers do not accept commerce with people from India.

  • Mr Moov Ben

    Reply Reply February 15, 2018

    First time reading about her though from last many yaers in Swinging lifestyle in Denmark. Excellent interviews Dr. 36 and thanks. Want to know more about insight and her hot experiance especially with her husband while watching her perform with her lovers. Like both pictures her and her husband too. This is how it should be.I might will joined her. Thanks again.

    • Rebecca

      Reply Reply February 26, 2018

      I hope you joined Ben. Can you ask more specifics about what it is you want to know about our cuckold interaction?. I feel like we’ve answered it in general here, but it sounds like there are more specific questions. If we get enough questions here, I’d gladly do another interview here.

  • Anderson jeremy

    Reply Reply February 23, 2018

    All three interview are good and especially last one with picture of hubby in the end that is something which makes it more attractive and thank you Dr.36 for doing this I am member of many such website and will love to be member of her website too but my friends view is her videos are in very dark and you cannot view it properly. Does she share any more her love life with her hubby wants to know more about it.

    • Rebecca

      Reply Reply February 26, 2018

      Yes my member interviews are dark on purpose because they are amateur films. We don’t pose for them. Believe me, making love on camera with bright lights and having people circling around the bed and making sounds is distracting for me. When you see me on camera I am not fucking, I am making love,It is a very intimate thing.

      I do have some well lit material and you can find that material at

  • Annisa Weah

    Reply Reply March 26, 2018

    Hi, My name is Annisa Weah and I am hot wife from UK. How come we have not heard much about you in UK? Thanks to this website and Mr. Cuckold Consultant that now I know you and love you so much. You MUST work in regular xxx movies only once or twice and you WILL SEE HOW FAMOUS YOU BECOME AND HOW YOUR BUSINESS ROLLING. I am also doing this to stay fit ,healthy and young but WE HAVE NOT FREEDOM HERE LIKE U.S. LOVE-LOVE-LOVE YOU.

  • John Samuel

    Reply Reply May 8, 2018

    If I am not wrong I have seen both as quite young couple in Vegas strip club in around 2002 or 2003,when she won the amature contest and especially in the last step she was completely naked on the stage and public going crazy. Thank you Dr.36 to bring those memories back. I dont understand why they divorced because they were enjoying every moment of it? He was telling everyone with pride that she was love of her life and her wife who won that contest.

  • Rebecca

    Reply Reply June 5, 2018

    Annisa I have done pro films as is seen in the link on I don’t know why I am not big int the UK. I don’t think I am big in the US. I just am not into the part of being a pro porn star. I prefer to be a connoisseurs great little secret.

    Porn stars seem to come and go…..but amateurs last forever.

    As for John, that sounds slightly accurate. Not quite sure on the dates, but the story sounds right.

  • Laura Ashley

    Reply Reply June 18, 2018

    Your hubby is so lucky to have such a sexy wife. Wish I can buy your movie from local store. I can understand that you dont do any pro movies but one movie with celebrity like Shane Diesel WILL BREAK ALL THE WALL. Not only me but many of your viewers will love to see it, buy it and preserve it in their archives. With sincere hope in advance thank you.

  • Dr. Richy Benson Jr.

    Reply Reply July 3, 2018

    So juicy interview and so hotwife of lucky hubby. Really shocked to see picture of hubby with dick.I am black and want to know more.Lexington Steele is my favorite male pornstar, does she is having any movie with him?

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