Can a working mom of six kids also be a hotwife who loves having MMF and FFM threesomes with her husband?
It sounds like a trick question, I know, because you’d think—no way that’s possible! I can assure you though that it’s entirely possible. Why take my word for it though when you can hear from a woman who is in fact a working mom of six kids that explores the lifestyle in the most awesome ways? Allow me to introduce Nurse Nikki. She’s a sexy, funny, honest, openminded, sexy (did I say that twice?), slutwife MILF who agreed to take some time out of her busy life and do an interview for us. I don’t want to spoil the interview though so without further ado, we hope you enjoy! (Oh and we hope you enjoy the special NSFW picture at the end of the interview)
Q: So, what’s your story? You identify as a hotwife/slutwife. How did all this start?
A: Becoming a hotwife/slutwife was several years in the making for us, it all started with talking about fantasies while having sex. I guess I would say it was my husband who really broached the subject first, as he knew my biggest fantasy was to get fucked by two guys.
Initially I was very hurt by this and didn’t understand how he could share me if he loved me, but at the same time I was turned on by it. At first we would talk about it during sex, but never went any farther than that, it made sex hotter for us.
After several years of just talking about it we finally decided to act on it, which was about 3 years ago. The first time was a BBC and I was so nervous I drank way too much on the way to his apartment, and my husband had to pull the car over so I could vomit. It was not pretty and I’m sure I smelled terrible but the BBC still managed to give me three cream pies.
After this experience I felt it only fair that my husband gets to have his fantasy of being with two women. We soon discovered that finding a single female (that was attractive and not crazy) was not that easy so we started pursuing couples. Fast forward to today and we have now done mmf, mff, couples, group, parties and sex clubs all over the country.
Q: You’ve shared pics and vids of your hubby fucking your Unicorn. Can you explain to those in our audience what a unicorn is and how you found her?
A: A “Unicorn” is a single female that plays with couples (that’s the definition we know). They normally are Bi and looking for the best of both worlds. They are called unicorns because they are basically a mythical creature that doesn’t really exist. They do exist, it is just difficult to find one that we both have chemistry with and both want to be with (more so me because I’m a lot pickier).
We had found a couple of them in the beginning, but the chemistry wasn’t there or they were bat shit crazy. We found our current unicorn on Adult Friend Finder. We’ve had a few really hot unicorn experiences, even had a regular one in another state but that gets expensive so we looked for a local one.
Q: Do you have a preference for what you like better given the choice between a MMF threesome and a FFM threesome? What do you like about each?
A: I actually go through phases…right now I’m more into FFM threesome. The thing I like best about FFM is that I am giving my husband something most men only dream of. I also enjoy it because my husband is fully engaged in the act, whereas, with MMF he spends most of the time videoing. When the chemistry is right, I am fully attracted to women and enjoy playing with them. I am turned on by watching my husband make other women cum, which is he is very good at. There’s something so hot to me about watching my husband fuck and pleasure other women…it gives me a sense of pride. I’m actually getting turned on right now just typing about it lol.
When it comes to MMF I enjoy feeling like I am being used and dominated. I love to put on a show for my husband, he says I’m his favorite Porn Star.
Q: How did you go about finding third parties to play with before you became internet popular, so to speak? Can you share 3-5 tips for new couples who are just starting out and trying to find a third party to play with?
A: We started originally with Craigslist but when that got shut down, we found Adult Friend Finder. We’ve met several couples and singles on that site. We attend regular house parties and meet new people there as well. We met our out of state unicorn at a swinger club in Seattle. We still use AFF (Adult Friend Finder) but not as much, as we now have a pretty big circle of Swinger friends.
Tip for new couples starting out would be:
AFF. This is where we’ve met most of our couples and we still use it. Also met our Unicorn here. We met people on here who plugged us into the local swinger community as well, which is how we started getting invited to regular house parties.
Go check out your local Swinger of Sex Club. If you are afraid of running into people you know then go out of state. Remember that just because you go doesn’t obligate you to do anything, we’ve never felt any pressure at these clubs. Just go and check it out.
We’ve not had much luck with Tinder but others have.
I also want to add that we have run into several ex-coworkers at parties and meet and greets, I even ran into one of my nursing professors at a meet and greet (she was totally freaked out initially). So, discuss ahead of time how you will react and handle this situation, should it occur and remember that they are there for the same reason.
Q: What are 3 of the biggest myths about being a hotwife/slutwife? What do you think contributes to people believing these myths?
A: That a Hotwife/slutwife will fuck anything that moves. Totally not true, I am SUPER picky with both men and women, much to my husband’s disappointment. I think people believe this myth because they figure if we’re willing to display our sex life to the world then we are willing to fuck anything. NOPE.
That all I do is sit around my house and masturbate, sext and take pictures. I wish this was all I do! I think people think this when you post as much as I do. Most of these pics are pulled from my photo gallery. I will take a whole bunch of pictures and then pull from that periodically. I actually have very little free time in my day.
That I’m an escort or prostitute. I’ve had several men on Twitter DM asking “how much for…”. it’s easy to understand why someone would have this idea when I advertise my sex life like I do. At least those guys offer to pay…some straight up ask me to fuck them just out of the goodness of my heart lol.
Q: Some people struggle with the concept of trying to reconcile marriage with exploring a lifestyle such as the one you and your husband do. They think—well what’s the point of getting married if you’re going to sleep with others? What would you say in response to this?
A: For us we only play together never separate, this is our number one unbreakable rule. The whole point of us exploring the Lifestyle is to be freaky together and our biggest turn on is to watch each other fuck and be pleasured. It’s such a turn on is to be able to look at each other while engaged in an act with another person.
One of my husband’s favorite things is to be kissing me while he has his cock in another woman, and I love having his cock in my mouth while there is another cock in my pussy. Being able to share these moments is what excites us and why we do what we do. We love the way the Lifestyle enhances and amplifies our sex life and our relationship.
I like to say that swinging for us has the excitement of dating/meeting new people, but you’re doing it with your soulmate and you don’t go home alone. Not every meet is a success, but we don’t care because we are going to go home together and will fuck each other’s brains out. It’s a win win.
Q: Are you a nurse in real life? Do you ever worry about anyone finding out that you explore this lifestyle? Does anyone in your real life know that you explore this lifestyle? If so, how supportive have they been? If not, why don’t you share this area of your life with them?
A: I am a Registered Nurse in real life. I do worry about people finding out about our Lifestyle but not as much as I used to. Our best friends (another husband and wife) did find out about us. Turned out they were interested in the Lifestyle themselves, but it went nowhere for them (I don’t think she was fully on board). They had a lot of questions for us, and said it didn’t change the way they felt about us as friends. Them knowing has not affected our friendship.
I have contemplated sharing what we do with other friends, but the bottom line is it’s really not their business, just like what they do in their sex life is not ours unless they volunteer it. If someone were to point blank ask me if we are in the Lifestyle, I would answer honestly.
Q: What are 2 of the most memorable/enjoyable experiences you’ve had while exploring all this?
A: First would have to be our first time with a couple, it was on Valentine’s Day and was very exciting. We talked for days after about our favorite parts etc. We were like teenagers who just started having sex.
Second is our first time with our out of state unicorn. It was at a Swinger’s club and we didn’t see a whole lot of prospects so we decided to go to a playroom and start fucking, just the two of us. Before we know it, this beautiful young blonde asked if she could join us…it was magic from there lol
Q: Many people think couples such as you and your husband do nothing but have sex. Obviously, there’s more to life than all this. What are some hobbies/interests/things you enjoy besides exploring this lifestyle?
A: We have very busy lives to say the least. I work 5 days a week with a 2-hour commute and work out 3-4 days a week on top of this. Hubby mostly works from home, but occasionally travels out of state. We have 6 kids ages 15-23 and 4 dogs that keep us busy. We live in Alaska so naturally we are very outdoorsy.
In the winter Hubby rides snow machines in the back country. In the summer we take the RV and side by side out just about every weekend and get lost in the woods. We don’t play with others very much in the summer, because we are so busy playing outside, as is the case with a lot of Lifestyle couples in Alaska.
Q: Have you ever run into any periods in life where your sex drive was low and you didn’t have a desire to explore any of this, or have sex at all? If not, what factor(s) do you feel contribute to you being able to continue to explore all this?
A: Just like anything even the Lifestyle can lose its luster at times…we periodically take breaks from it and just live life. If my sex drive starts to take a nose dive it’s usually because I am stressed or just plain tired from our busy lives. I usually just need a little time to relax and then I’m back in the game. I think it’s healthy to take a break every now and then and just regroup and revisit why you are doing it. We both have to be on board with playing, otherwise, it doesn’t happen. Our marriage and commitment to each other’s happiness comes first. When we do take an extended break the desire for the excitement always draws me back in.
Q: What are the 3 most appealing things about exploring all that you do? Why do these things appeal to you?
A: The excitement and newness of experiences. Who doesn’t love the excitement of dating or fucking someone new? Getting to do it with your soulmate is on a whole new level. It’s awesome!
The sex with others is great, but the sex between the two us when we’re alone is amazing! After being together for 11 years he’s still my favorite fuck.
I love the social aspect. We enjoy going out and meeting new people. What can I say we love to party!
I want to thank Nurse Nikki for taking the time to do this interview with us. I also appreciate her willingness to be so candid about what hotwifing looks like in reality. It’s part of her life, not all of it, and she and her husband clearly found a way to integrate it into their lives in a positive and healthy way which works for them. I encourage you to keep all that mind and not let your expectations be completely tainted by getting over-memed on Tumblr and Twitter and such. Speaking of Twitter, if you didn’t catch the hyperlink to Nurse Nikki’s Twitter at the beginning of the interview, i’ll post it again now. She shares some awesome real content so be sure to check it out here: https://twitter.com/hotwife3bbc P.S. Here’s that special pic of her I promised…