An Exclusive Interview – Meet sub2myGoddess  4.9/5 (20)

It is with great excitement that I give you the first official interview from a verified VIP member of Cuckold Chat. His name is sub2myGoddess.

sub2myGoddess was willing to participate in an interview about he and his deliciously promiscuous wife’s cuckold relationship. What’s even better is that she was willing to participate in the interview as well.

So kick back, relax, and enjoy getting to know a very intelligent, down-to-earth, kinky cuckold and cuckoldress couple as they tell you all about their journey and how they balance their cuckold relationship with everyday life.


The Interview

Q: How did the two of you get into cuckolding lifestyle?

A: Her: I had dated possessive and jealous guys in the past and sometimes ended up cheating on them to get the attention or satisfaction I desired. I didn’t realize that an open relationship was possible until I met my Sissy and told him about my inclinations.

When we started we were more or less in an open relationship and what many refer to as Swingers; however, I wanted to “own” my man. He was very supportive and reassuring to give me the confidence to share my deepest desires. We didn’t even know what cuckold play was, but as we evolved and followed our passions and kinks, we discovered a whole new world.  And we’re still learning today.

Him: I am a very loyal person but also can be flirtatious. Jealousy had always been an issue in past relationships even though I have never cheated on any of my partners.  When I met my Goddess, she asked me during our second date how I would feel about dating a girl that was bisexual.  (I tried to contain my excitement.)  She was surprised that I was not bothered or insecure at all; instead I became more inquisitive.

As we continued to share past experiences and new desires I assured her that as long as she was always open and honest with me, anything is possible. We started looking for an allusive vanilla hookup and ended up having a MFM threesome with a friend and both were hooked immediately. We joined a Lifestyle site and explored swinging including couple swaps as well as MFF and MFM.  We quickly discovered that she did not enjoy seeing me with other women and shifted our focus more to her playing as a HotWife. This came naturally as even I found myself too distracted to enjoy being with other women because I was so intensely focused on seeing her with others.

As we explored more, including her with multiple men, we have slowly progressed more and more into cuckold play. We are now in a very happy and secure place. It is always nice to meet other like minded people open to exploring similar kinks.


Q: Most couples have problems maintaining a normal, vanilla relationship, let alone one that explores some of the things the two of you explore. What are 3-5 things about your relationship that have contributed to your success in being able to do so?

A:These may seem simple and obvious but they have been critical to our happiness and the strength of our relationship both within the lifestyle and in vanilla situations:

  1. 100% honesty
  2. Open minds with no judgement
  3. Our relationship comes first


Q: Have you ever had sex with more than two guys at the same time or had a train run on you? If so, what was it like?

A: Yup and yup. My first time with two guys at once was in my late teens – the first time was by chance. Then, I got to be honest, I looked for it, it was like my crack. I got a bad reputation as you might guess. My first train was a private party I did in college, each of us girls hired to be the entertainment took a room and guys would come in and out. I was with one guy at a time while the other guys watched and commented, cheered, etc.


Q: Can you describe the appeal of being a cuckold and cuckoldress couple? Why do you do it, and how does it make you feel?

A: Her: It feels incredible to know that my sissy will do anything for my pleasure and happiness as well as be 100% dedicated to pleasing only his Goddess. It is also extremely gratifying to feel desired by other men and to act on those desires when there is mutual chemistry and attraction. It does not replace what we have as a couple but adds to our passion with each other.  I love involving my sissy in carnal situations of passion and sex – and making him feel involved but also appropriately placed in the setting.  But also love the freedom and empowerment to go out on my own for a girls night or date night with my special Bull.  I get things that would not be possible from my husband alone.

Him: I take great pleasure and satisfaction in the pleasure of my Goddess. The feeling I get from other men desiring my wife with the confidence of knowing that she is mine gives a sense of pride to be able to share her with others. The sense of “reclaiming” my wife after she has been with others is real and keeps the fire alive in our relationship.

There is also an aspect of giving up complete control to my Goddess that is hard to explain.  In the safety of our intimacy there is a humiliation aspect that creates an erotic atmosphere for both of us.  It is a welcome escape from the pressures and realities of regular, everyday life.


Q: What are some of the biggest (or most unexpected) challenges the two of you have faced while exploring this lifestyle?

A: Her: Sometimes as much as we try, emotions can come into play and we are continuously working on communication and honesty as we explore this new world. We have had guys become too attached or want more than we were willing or comfortable giving. There is also a certain taboo and fear of being “outed”, but over time we have become more confident and secure – sharing with very trusted friends only and even considering what a world would be like where we don’t feed into the taboo but share the benefits of our open lifestyle. Putting our relationship first has allowed us to overcome any challenges in the lifestyle.

Him: Balance is the most important thing to maintain. It is easy to get caught up in the lifestyle and lose a sense of priority, but we feel we have done a pretty good job. There is always the ongoing risk involved and we are extremely conscientious of being careful to mitigate those risks as much as possible to allow us to enjoy the positive aspects. I feel fortunate that by always being honest and taking time for us, we have avoided some of the common pitfalls we have seen other friends experience in the lifestyle.


  • Rebecca

    Reply Reply October 30, 2018

    Make sure you visit this couple in Cuckold chat! See what they are all about

  • chicagocuck

    Reply Reply November 3, 2018

    honest and real story,, sexy too

  • GBwifepleaser

    Reply Reply November 6, 2018

    Good stuff! 🙂 Hard to find real people who are so genuine. Thanks!

  • sub2myGoddess

    Reply Reply November 25, 2018

    Glad you enjoyed, GBwifepleaser. We enjoyed sharing our story and love hearing from others!

  • Kelly Kute

    Reply Reply December 6, 2018

    My Husband likes to wear Lingerie with his dates,and I like watching him with his Friends.

    • sub2myGoddess

      Reply Reply December 10, 2018

      That sounds fun, Kelly Kute! We need more friends like you 😉

  • Kixxmn

    Reply Reply December 19, 2018

    The transformation of this couple is erotic… It was a pleasure to read the interview and hope we hear more soon.

  • Bigoneherre

    Reply Reply July 14, 2020

    That was one of the most erotic and insightful discussions with a Lifestyle couple I’ve read. They are so in tune with each other’s desires and intimacies it creates such a great bond for such an intense way of having FUN. Thank you for sharing.

  • Hubs2Hotwife

    Reply Reply July 23, 2020

    “Limits can vary over time and we both always have an option of saying we are not comfortable or not in the mood.” Wow, what a solid and honest observation, and one I’ve not heard anyone mention before. I would even go so far as to say that limits CAN from time to time vary for both parties subject to circumstances and mood.

    As the husband, on a rare occasion I find myself just not “feeling it”, or even feeling insecure to the point that it affects my level of acceptance and engagement with a date she’s about to go on. Up to now there’s only been one time that I wound up being responsible for shutting things down (and her staying home). On that occasion, a regular bull called her up and wanted to meet for a quickie (he’s a very spur-of-the-moment guy, and his “quickies” have been known to take several hours and sometimes place them in dicey public settings where the risk of being caught is higher). We’d planned a quiet evening to watch a movie together, also our son’s girlfriend was at the house. I felt intruded upon and disappointed. She was disappointed that she was unable to go have fun.

    It precipitated a fairly emotional discussion wherein she asserted that I was the one who’d “gotten me into this” and now I was denying her the pleasure of enjoying it. The bottom line is that a very honest conversation followed and we were able to successfully share our perspectives and negotiate a truce. The experience taught me more about myself. And we continue to grow closer because we make communication a priority.

    Great interview! Thanks for sharing it.

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