An Exclusive Interview – Meet Hotwife4oldermen

The couple in this interview has been together for 25 years, and for 20 out of those 25 years they’re been in the hotwife lifestyle. What’s perhaps most interesting in my opinion is how a “soccer mom” with a full time job and family has been able to have this much continued success in the lifestyle.

This isn’t to say married mothers can’t have continued success but rather the challenges that many couples face are often reasons for their journeys to stop or die out. The wife is one-half the composite of the couple Hotwife4oldermen though has been with over 100 different men, and the husband has been documenting her journey.

I’m sure you’ll find reading their story interesting, so without further ado, enjoy!


The Interview

Q: How did the two of you get into hotwifing/cuckolding lifestyle? Whose idea was it, what was the other’s reaction, and how did it all progress to what it’s become today?

A: Before we were married she told em she wanted to try a 3 way FMF and this was the late 90’s so it was impossible to find someone. So like everyone else we started out swinging. She quickly learned she wasn’t into other women. She then said she wanted to try a MFM 3 way with me. And we did it a few times and I remember sitting back not joining in and loving it. Then I found a website Hotwife Jackie and that changed everything. It was hard for her to understand at first but she embraced it quickly.


Q: Most guys have a hard time getting their wives to embrace their submissive side in their own bedroom when it’s just the two of them. How have you managed to get your wife to embrace it with others?

A: I take pictures and video 80% of her dates and it’s like watching a game film. I notice she had submissive tendencies, and when she is caught up in the morning she seems to embrace it more. However when she is with me in our bedroom she’s not as submissive. It wasn’t until after 10 years she really embraced it.


Q: Most women say they want/need some kind of emotional connection with a man before she sleeps with him. Is this true for your wife, or does she prefer it to be more of a “stranger” fucking her kind of encounter?

A: It really depends on her mood and where we are at.  She loves both. If we know we want to meet someone for a possible long-term relationship then there definitely has to be a connection. If we are out in another town like Vegas and go to a club then we are fine with a one night stand.


Q: How many hotwife experiences would you say you’ve had up until this point? Can you give us details on one or two of the most memorable ones?

A: It’s easily over 100.  We usually like to go out once a month and try to meet up with 2 bulls in one night.

Most memorable had to be this past December in Vegas. We met up with a local guy that we have played with on 4 other occasions and for some reason something came over her and she let him fuck her bareback.

The second was end of February this year; we just set up a quick meeting with a new person and she ended up in the backseat letting him finger her and then she sucked his cock.


Q: What are 2-3 of the most “extreme” submissive things your wife has done, and what were those experiences like?

A: 1) Doctor office exam in a real Doctors office

2) Show up to a Dom’s house and let him flog her and use a dildo hooked to a saw

3) Getting collared, leashed and then fucked bareback


Q: Many couples don’t know where to start when it comes to finding a bull. Is there any kind of streamlined process you follow now to increase the odds of 1) finding someone real, and 2) finding someone suitable?

A: That is why I handle all the initial contact. We use swinging sites and craigslist was great before they shut it down. What I do is give them the basic information about us let them know it’s me the husband. Once I get a feeling they are real then I show my wife who I’m talking to, show her the pictures and emails, and if she likes what she sees then we go forward with setting a date.


Q: Are you always there when your wife plays with other men? If so, do you have to reject a lot of men who aren’t open to this? If not, what’s it like knowing she’s out on her own with another man getting fucked by him?

A: Yes I’m always there and one of our things are if you want to play with my wife you have to let me take pictures and videos. However after we have met somebody and been with them a few times and there’s a really good connection I do let my wife play alone. Just as long as she has a camera set up.


1 Comment

  • Steve

    Reply Reply April 30, 2020

    I really enjoyed that Q&A. It was direct, enduring, and very sexual. Thank you for that interview. Sure seems like that wife and her husband are very sexual and giving. Loved it!!

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