An Exclusive Interview - Meet DallasUsa26

Sometimes, all that’s well doesn’t end well. And unfortunately, this was the case for the Tumblr couple @dallasusa26 and @dnchotwife (who have since deactivated their accounts since their relationship dissolved).

They started exploring the lifestyle while they were just dating, and eventually wound up getting married. Their journey started to decompensate when @dnchotwife began to break some of the original boundaries they had in place. And well, things kind of went from there.

I’m grateful that @dallasusa26 was willing to do the interview (when I first contacted him, he and his wife were still together) and share his experiences and what he’s learned from it. You can find all that and more below.

The Interview

Q: How did you get started in the cuckolding/hotwifing lifestyle?

A: It all started as my girlfriend was telling me about a married guy that she let fuck her on his desk because he helped her get financed for a car.  That story really turned me on.  So another time I dared her to suck my friend’s dick while we were all drunk and she did it reluctantly.  Then another time she took off her top in the hot-tub and let us both play with and suck her tits.  Then she was stroking our cocks on either side.  At this time I was also new to Tumblr and started finding out about the Hotwife lifestyle and how much it turned me on.  Since I already knew she was open to fooling around, I told her about my page and it went on from there.

Q: Does your girlfriend have a long-standing lover or multiple lovers?

A: She has been fucking one guy for about two years.  She met him in the gym and he thinks she is sneaking and cheating so it gives her a thrill.  Then she comes home and tells me all about it.  She has also had a boyfriend for about 5 months that she met and fucked last summer on a girls trip.  She says she is in love with him and they are exclusive.

Q: What was it like in the beginning to first have your girlfriend take steps to making your fantasy a reality?

A: It was the most exciting thing I had ever experienced.  It was naughty, breaking the rules.  She truly is my favorite pornstar.  We felt so connected and sexually charged for each other, like when we were first dating.

Q: What are the 5 biggest mistakes you would say beginners could make when living out their cuckolding/hotwifing fantasies?

A: 1) Be honest.  Honest with what turns you on and what your boundaries are.

  1. Stick to your boundaries.  If your wife is cock hungry like mine, she will continue to push your boundaries and by the time you react, it may be past the point of no return.

  2. Don’t be pushy.  Communicate what you want and help the other person understand it, but don’t force anything.  

  3. Talk out your expectations.  If you both don’t communicate what you want from the lifestyle, you could end up travelling down separate paths.

  4. Take it one step at a time.  Enjoy each new experience, reflect on it and afterwards discuss whether or not it fits into your journey together.  Figure out what you’d like to change or keep the same.

Q: What advice would you have for someone if they were just getting started in the cuckolding or hotwifing lifestyle today?

A: Make some friends with similar interests.  it can get pretty lonely if you aren’t able to talk about it with anyone else.  Sometimes you’re so excited, you just want to share!

Q:  If you had it to do all over again, would you still go into the cuckolding/hotwifing lifestyle

A: I would definitely do it all again.  It is exciting and really makes you passionate towards each other.

Q: If you had to do it all over again, what would you do the same, and differently?

A: I would be more clear in what I wanted and expected and not let her cross my boundaries so easily.  I would also fight to protect our intimacy between each other.  It can’t all be about her with others, otherwise she doesn’t feel like the most important person to you.  Remember, she can fuck anyone, why should she keep coming home to you?

Q: Do you have any tips, tricks, or hints could you give to men out there whose wives are a little hesitant or resistant to indulging in this fantasy?

A: My wife’s biggest hesitation was that she thought I was urging her to sleep with other guys as an excuse to sleep with other women.  She definitely was not okay with that.  If that is your intention, be upfront about it.  I genuinely had no interest in sleeping around, I just enjoyed her being a hotwife.

Q: Where are your go to sites for the best cuckold porn on the net?

A: Tumblr exclusively.

Q: What’s it like being a cuckold in real life as opposed to just getting off to cuckold porn on the internet?

A: I was typically not attracted to the cuckolding/humiliation side of this fetish.  So once she started disrespecting me and choosing to spend all her time talking to and visiting another man over me and our family, I became jealous and insecure which was unattractive to her and only pushed her away further.  When she started hiding things from me, she broke our agreement and it led to our recent separation.


Although both their Tumblrs have been deactivated, quite a few of @dnchotwife’s pictures are still on the web if you know how to search. She is quite the bombshell.

Before I end this, I’d like to point out that @dallasusa26 used the phrase “led to our recent separation.” Notice he didn’t say divorce, nor does he refer to her as his ex. Does this mean there’s a possibility of reconciliation? It would be foolish for us to speculate. We can only hope they choose whatever path is best for both of them and their family.

I want to thank @dallasusa26 for taking the time to do this interview, so let’s wish him all the best in navigating this new chapter of his journey, and encourage him to keep in touch regarding any further developments in his situation.

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