An Exclusive Interview – Following Up With sub2myGoddess

About 10 months ago, the Cuckold Chat VIP couple, sub2myGoddess, did an interview with us sharing the details of their then newly developing D/s Hotwife & cuckold relationship. Today, I bring you an update on how things have been going for them since the last time they gave us a peek into their life.

I have to say, it always excites me to see couples who have their stuff together enough to successfully navigate this lifestyle because it’s not easy. Don’t get me wrong, you’re not walking a tightrope, but you have to be smart and your relationship has to be solid.

For those of you who want to know what can happen when you explore the lifestyle together, read on. You’re bound to get jealous.

Oh and the pics at the end of the interview…some of the best I’ve seen.

The Interview

Q: So what have you two been up to in the last few months? Has your wife been focusing on one lover, or multiple? On how many separate occasions over the last few months since we last talked would you say she’s slept with someone else?

A: Him:  We have always chosen a quality over quantity approach, but that has been reinforced since goddess met her current boyfriend last September.  She has been with at least 3 other men since we last talked, but over the last few months it has been primarily her regular boyfriend.  She sees him a minimum of 1-2 times a week.  I travel often for work and he will stay over while I am out of town, and when I am not traveling she will choose between going to his place or having me in the guest room while he comes over to spend a night with her.  It is so erotic to get text messages while I am traveling that she is with her Bull, or how excited she is to see him.  Even better when he will send me messages including some pics to tease me about what they are up to while I am away and assuring me that she is in good hands.  She still has her HotWife tendencies and loves to tease and flirt when she sees other hot guys.  We also still keep in touch with her select BBC bulls and connect when we are traveling in their area.  Life continues and that includes a mix of work, family, travel and play, but the HotWife life continues to work for us.

Her: If he had this travel schedule and didn’t allow me to play with others, I would have cheated by now. I love that I don’t have to – and can share all the gritty details with my cuck. Beyond just needing a bigger bull in the bedroom, I love the sinfulness of being the goddess in the relationship. It’s nice to be able to go out for a girls’ night and flirt openly and even pick up a hot guy from time to time! Nothing to hide and I’m so proud to be a HotWife.


Q: What did being submissive mean to you when you first entered into this kind of dynamic with your wife, and how has your understanding of that concept changed/deepened/evolved over time?

A: Him: Submissive to me meant doing what she says.  But it’s more than that.  I have  grown to understand that her needs come first.  That it is my role to think of her needs and desires and try to be proactive to satisfy those in creative ways even without being told.  It is also about giving her control and accepting whatever that may bring.  Whether being locked in my cock cage or made to do chores around the house in panties or a maid’s outfit, or accept that she wants to brag to her girlfriends that I will do anything she says while she goes out with other men.  It has been an interesting journey of discovery and we are both surprised by how much the kinks and twists turn us both on!

Her:  I am not naturally a Domme but it is nice to have a willing submissive husband to make me feel sexy, desired and empowered.  To me, it means that my needs come first, but also that he gets satisfaction from that as well. And beyond that, watching him suck big bull cock deep down his throat is an ultimate turn-on and feeds my desires for more. The biggest fantasy I have and have had is for him to eat my bull’s loads out of my pussy while I tell him he’s so deserving of the clean-up. So hot!


Q: Have your sexual and/or emotional feelings for your husband changed over the last few months? If so, how and why do you think this is/isn’t?

A: Her: We are still very much in love.  He is my soulmate and best friend, but I long for variety, the excitement of a new/different sexual partner and being spoiled for a “night on the town” – as well as a bigger size of course. Emotionally, I would say that we are stronger and more connected than ever.  I wouldn’t say that my sexual feelings have changed, but I have come to terms and can be honest with myself that I need more than my sissy hubby can give me, and he will never fully satisfy me sexually.  At the same time, he pleases me more than anyone could by accepting his place and embracing me as his HotWife who can be with any man I desire.  That freedom is so empowering and exhilarating, and it takes a strong man to give that to his wife.  I am more in love with him today that when we were married, but I am also more confident and happy that I can enjoy a fulfilling sex life and enjoy the pleasures of other hung men knowing that my husband will always be there to love me, cuddle me and take care of my other needs.  He will just never please me sexually.  Giving me that control means everything.


Q: You mentioned balancing the lifestyle is one of the most challenging things to navigate while exploring it. Has this challenge reared its head at all recently? If so, how? What did you do to overcome it? If it hasn’t, what have you been doing right that has kept you from encountering it?

A: Him: This remains very important to us.  We have made this a priority and feel this allows us to continue to enjoy the lifestyle we do.  My work life is busier than ever and this lifestyle allows us to connect even while I am on the road by allowing her to spend time with lovers and share all the details with me.  In a way, it makes work travel less of a negative and something she almost looks forward to so she can have some alone time with her boyfriend.  This is a mix of emotions and can be humiliating knowing your wife is happy at home with another man, but the erotic thrill charges us immensely.  Those times we are together we take the time to focus on us.

Her: I do have to admit, I mark his travel in my calendar and schedule others into those slots with excitement. I love telling him what’s happening for me that week, who I’m going to be with, and lately, sending him hot texts, audios, pictures and videos of my sexual escapades while he’s away – and teasing him that I don’t miss him one bit. However, he is and will always be the best at spooning me. We can fill in the gaps with our lifestyle to keep things fun and interesting, and connect on a deeper level when we are together.  When not working and playing I also find time to stay active, hit the gym or practice yoga, coffee chats with friends and even some girls’ nights out.  It’s all about balance in all aspects of life.


  • Luke

    Reply Reply September 17, 2019

    Great interview a lot of great info and a lot of similarly between them and my wife and I and where we are in our lives

  • Kixxmn

    Reply Reply September 17, 2019

    An Amazing read… For me its very special as i know both of these wonderful people and learn from them as they go on the journey to …….?

    Watching them mature is very erotic for me as a husband in the same boat…

    Mr. Kixx

  • Malcolm

    Reply Reply September 20, 2019

    I think the whole denigration thing is repusive and ridiculous. In what real way is a woman who enjoys being penetrated by a big cock superior to a man who has a small cock and is willing to facilitate his wife enjoying that which he has not? For her response to that freedom and encouragement to be to denigrate and deny her cuck/husband is beyond selfish and shows that she is an ugly self-centered person. HIs ultimate submission is to put up with her disgusting attitude. He could do better with a better quality person as a wife.

    • sub2myGoddess

      Reply Reply September 23, 2019

      Hi Malcolm – I completely respect your opinion and acknowledge that the humiliation aspect of the HotWife/cuckold lifestyle is not for everyone. In fact, we did not incorporate this into our relationship until many years of exploring and we still test varying degrees. I never would have predicted that this kink would become a pleasurable aspect of our sex-life as a married couple! Where I must disagree is when you attack my Wife’s (or any person’s) character as a person based on personal preferences.

      This is an aspect of our sex-life that we both enjoy together. We can not stress enough that this is mutually consensual and that if either of us was ever bothered by the other’s actions or behavior, we would have an open and honest dialogue to address that immediately. So, while I can recognize how one-sided denial or humiliation could breed negativity in the absence of consent, that is fortunately not the case for us.

      We are 100% about honesty, respect, and consent. To each his or her own and never any judgement from us.

  • Cucksubmmm

    Reply Reply December 23, 2019

    I am a cuck wannabe but I don’t want the humiliation aspect of being a cuck. I want her to cuck because it pleases me to imagine my gf taking immense pleasure from another man’s cock. I have ED issues and cannot always perform, so I would be more than happy to know she is being pleasured to intense orgasms.
    I would not want to indulge in the cock cage thing and I want to remain the head of the household…except in the area of her enjoying another man’s cock.
    That said, I respect other adults making their own choices as to how they want to work their relationship within the confines of cuckoldry.
    I wish this couple all the happiness they can attain and give them praise for the balance they are keeping in their relationship.

  • Allan

    Reply Reply June 7, 2020

    Thank you for sharing. You two have a beautiful relationship.

  • NoExcuseSissyareweak

    Reply Reply November 16, 2020

    “It takes confidence and trust to incorporate this successfully into a healthy relationship”

    This isn’t an healthy relationship

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