The “Overcucked” Phenomenon, Part 2 4.7/5 (19)

“After a few days of letting the experience sink in, I still could hardly believe it. I had not had sex with anyone but my husband for 20 years and yet here I was in a hotel room, fucking a stranger…and we had the video footage to prove it. The effect on our own sex life before and after was just incredible. We had opened Pandora’s box and we were hooked. No going back…”

That’s where left Tom & Louise off (click here for Part 1). So how in the world did they get from that hopeful and exciting spot to Tom experiencing the phenomenon of being “Overcucked”, an incredibly complicated emotional experience that he described in detail on Tumblr which garnered an incredible amount of notes? Let’s find out, shall we?

A Temporary Break In The Action

Dry Spell

Perhaps it might seem a bit anticlimactic but truth of what really happened after their first encounter kind of was…well, anticlimactic. In fact, there was a period of six months when nothing more happened, at least regarding any hotwifing experiences. But this non-eventful period served a greater purpose for Tom & Louise—it allowed them both to process and determine where they both went on with it from there.

For better or for worse however, it wasn’t some serene period filled with nothing but deep soul searching and intimate connection. As Tom describes it, “Overridingly, it was just that everyday life just got in the way. Imagine a six month period where just about every majorly stressful life event all came one after the other, sometimes more than one particularly dreadful and similar one, almost at once, and I think you’ll be close. The fact that either of us, but arguably particularly me, mentally survived that six month period at all is something for which I am grateful but suffice it to say, it wasn’t pleasant.”

That’s life though, isn’t it? If you’re not prepared to weather regular storms and curve balls that come your way, then you might want to batten down the hatches if you’re considering exploring hotwifing without a solid relationship foundation. (That’s the polite way of saying you shouldn’t be exploring hotwifing together if you don’t have a solid intimacy bond already. Tom & Louise clearly did, which is why they weather the storms.)

They found their way back to exploring the lifestyle though. “By August, having been chatting to a guy for about two months, Louise was hopeful that she had found the guy who was to be her second. There had been a progressive build up in chatting to each other online and from the pictures they’d swapped it was apparent that there was a really strong mutual attraction. So together with me, she arranged a social meet with him.”

Meet “J”

“Now J was quite new to it, had never experienced a couple and was quite honest about the fact that he wasn’t sure how he felt about me being present, at least in the same room for their first time. I guess I could understand that actually, and seeing how exited Lou was about meeting him, I was keen to facilitate that for her whatever that involved. (ok and to elaborate on that – by seeing I really mean witnessing… its not something guys can really comprehend until they experience it – but experiencing her wetness – for another man… and I’m talking extreme wetness… wetter than you have ever remembered her… and permanently… That, believe me, takes your breath away, it certainly did and does for me anyway).”

“So even at that social meet, it felt right to allow them to walk together on their own. We did all have a pint together after, but Lou agreed that I’d instinctively got the balance right. Over the next few days we discussed me being in the house but just staying out of the way, or touched on the option of it being the following week while I was away on business. Initially Louise wasn’t sure she felt safe about that, but over the next few days of chatting with him, and without any further influence on my part, that was the option she chose.”

“I was away from the Tuesday to the Saturday and it was due to happen on the Friday night. Originally I wasn’t going to get to watch. Lou would just tell me about it, but at the last minute we devised a way I could skype in. Lou would leave her laptop on the table as if she’d been working with some blue tack over the camera light… so in fact I would get a one way show. The prospect of that was thrilling.”

I wanted to take a moment to point out the steps they had taken leading up to all this. Louise and J had been chatting for two months, all three of them (Tom, Louise, & J) had met in person and gone out for a pint together, there was some deliberation between Tom & Louise, more chatting, and finally a plan was devised. They did this smart, together, in a step by step way, so even if it seems like it all unfolded rather fast, it in fact unfolded in a very safe, systematic way.

While The Husband’s Away, The Wife Will Play

Husband's Away

If you’re reading this and couldn’t imagine what it would be like to be in Tom’s situation, you’re not alone. But to help with that, Tom does a really great job of taking us through it:

“As I left, they were chatting online, as they had been for days, and I kind of got this ‘wildest fantasy’ type thought pop into my head that they wouldn’t be able to wait until Friday. I told her that as I kissed her goodbye, she denied that was in the cards, all flushed with the most delicious looking arousal.”

“Less than two hours after I left the house, she had met him, not at our place but in a reasonably quiet corner of a very public and local industrial estate, and not for full sex, just for a kiss and an exceptionally steamy fumble… and they had also brought the meet forward to earlier in the week…because neither of them could wait.”

“So that brings me back to something I mentioned previously. Your lifelong fantasy – in your head vs out of your head. In your head it was you controlling it. You imagined in your fantasies, her acting according to your fantasies because basically, it was in your head… But now it’s out of your head, but more than that, it’s also very much in her head… and surprisingly (perhaps?) she is AT LEAST as aroused by the fantasy and process as you always were… So now, your wife / girlfriend is very much in the driving seat… and you are learning what it feels like for the first time in your fantasy, to be a nervous passenger… In my case having fantasized about having a hot-wife, I was beginning to experience my new life with a budding slut-wife…”

That’s the goal of most men right there; having your wife embrace this fantasy just as much as you embrace it. Also, that experience Tom mentions about being a “nervous passenger” toes the line between hotwife husband/stag cuckold and your more traditional type cuckold. And sometimes being right on that line is the most interesting place to be.

If you’re interested in reading all the juicy details of that meet, you can find them on Tom & Louise’s Tumblr. We’re going to move on to explore some more of the events that led up to that fateful weekend of Tom being “overcucked.”


  • Adam

    Reply Reply June 6, 2017

    very hot, did she get pregnant from S? when she did DP, who had which hole? what hole do you Tom prefer? we’re so interested in some of her words while being fucked by S, her moans, what does she say? any mentioning of S name, any request she wants him to do?

    • Tom

      Reply Reply September 11, 2017

      Hi Adam, Its Tom.

      No she hasn’t got pregnant to him yet, but I for one fine the risk of that very hot indeed. DP? we’ve done it together several times now and both had every option. I think the first time he was in her pussy and I was in her ass.

      Well her moans are to die for and she says things like fuck yes etc doesn’t tend to call him by name during sex – they fuck weekly or more and have been for a year now so i guess that’s not natral to use names during sex – they are way more familure than that.

      I think I’d struggle to find much they havent done together to be honest…

  • Radrick

    Reply Reply February 16, 2018

    Hey Tom I’m very interested in getting to know you guys, especially your wife as I’ve never had a married woman before but it’s always been my fantasy. My email is [email protected]. Please contact me there. Hoping to hear from you Soon?

  • French

    Reply Reply March 28, 2019

    This story is my story. I lived exactly the same, all absolutely equal, apart from the ending.
    Over the time she started lying to me, organizing meeting with him behind my back, growing a bond beyond the physical, and ultimately became infatuated with the other guy.
    So inevitably we split, I began another relationship, she tried with him with miserable effects.

    I congratulate on your better luck, but I must say, it doesn’t look like you told us all. For example, your wife asking you to leave when he was about to cum in her for the first time. It looks like she was harboring deeper feelings already; I remember this very well, the only reason to be alone with him in such a particular moment is just that: to be alone with him. Your presence was a distraction, something that for a woman “stains” the moment, that she wants to belong to them only.
    A woman who asks for the husband to leave when the bull is about to cum in her for the first time, is a woman who do not consider him ‘a bull’, a man to have fun with, but a lover.

    You might think I say this because I lived the same, with a bitter ending. Perhaps you’re right; your wife is not my ex, sure. But nonetheless, there are quite a few – many – points in your story marking a far deeper relationship between her and him, far deeper than you keep saying there is.
    As a matter of fact, I believe that a ‘normal’ woman – realizing her relationship with him was giving you intense pain – would have stopped seeing him.
    In your case, while I’m absolutely sure she brought it up, it doesn’t really seem that it ever was an option.

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