expose your wife

Do You Want To Expose Your Wife? 4.9/5 (43)

So let’s tie it all together now and reveal the relation that the sperm competition wiring has to candaulism: when you show others intimate/sexual photos of your wife, you’re in turn creating a sexual desire in them to have sex with your wife (provided they find her attractive). Knowing that other men want to have sex with your wife triggers your sperm competition wiring and causes you to become sexually aroused. That’s how/why sharing photos of your wife online turns so many men on. But..it doesn’t stop there….


Extreme Shades Of Exposing One’s Wife

If we stopped our explanatory journey there, then we wouldn’t be able to explain why/how some men enjoy the more extreme shades of exposing/candaulism, like posting a wife’s naked body with her personal information (which is not allowed at Cuckold Chat). That’s what we’re going to delve into now.

The explanation for the arousal behind these more hardcore shades of wife exposing isn’t actually that different than the arousal many people experience when exploring something taboo, such as having sex in public, exhibitionism play, or having sex on someone else’s (perhaps a relative’s) bed, etc. All those things, as incredibly risky or dangerous as they are, are found by many people to be more sexually arousing/stimulating then having vanilla sex in the confines of their own home where there’s no risk or danger. Why?

Well, when you do things you aren’t supposed to be doing and you risk “getting caught”, your physiology actually floods your body and brain with all kinds of hormones and neurotransmitters. Here’s where it gets interesting.

When your body and brain are flooded with these hormones and neurotransmitters, any other accompanying feelings of sexual arousal you happen to be experiencing before/during/after this flood are actually amplified.

Said another way: when you engage in any kind of taboo/risky/dangerous sexual practice or fantasy, the flood of hormones and neurotransmitters you experience due to the worry/anxiety of getting caught actually amplifies any sexual arousal you already have and is responsible for taking one’s sexual arousal to intoxicatingly high heights.

At it’s core when you think about it, it’s really no different than how make-up, break-up, or angry sex can be some of the hottest sex you ever have. The only thing that’s really different with those kinds of sex though are the potent and raw emotions which accompany the sex itself. In other words, physical stimulation can only be so pleasurable. It’s actually psychological stimulation which takes the physical pleasure experienced during physical stimulation to new levels.

So to sum up, it can therefore be said that experiencing another kind of emotion while experiencing sexual pleasure synergistically amplifies that sexual pleasure. Let’s circle back around to the beginning now.

The practice of exposing one’s wife with her personal information is perhaps one of the riskiest/most dangerous things you can do. All kinds of things could happen (and go wrong). The men who do this experience the anxiety of something happening (or going wrong) in a very real way as they sit in front of the computer, their hands literally trembling as they post. It’s this anxiety though, this very real fear and trepidation at the thought of someone else knowing who they and their wives are in real life, that amplifies their already-present sexual arousal to dizzying degrees.


The Last Piece

There’s one more important component to all this that I wanted to mention. That component is the ability that this kind of sexually charged risky practice has to grab a man right by his throat, turn his stomach in knots, and make him feel an almost intoxicating panicked-mania. For a moment, or a minute, or an hour….as long as he continues to expose his wife…he really…truly…feels. He’s totally present during that time, feeling everything, feeling something different, something poignant, something new, something real.

And that’s where this all fits in psychologically speaking. You see, everyone craves to feel alive, especially in a time when most of your life is spent doing things you don’t want to do for results that you’re really only marginally happy with. It’s the rare man that wakes up every morning and thinks, “Yes, I’m truly happy with the life I have and desire nothing else.” It’s more common for your feet to hit the ground in the morning and to feel as though you’re on a hamster wheel, day-in, and day-out.

So most men wind up becoming numb to their lives. They learn not to feel in order to escape the experience of feeling like their soul is being sucked dry by the daily drudgery of life itself. And all the while, they’re dying inside because they don’t feel much of anything anymore.

But when a man is sitting in front of the computer engaging in some candaulistic play, he’s jolted right out of his predictable, hum-drum life; the world and his experience of it becomes de-familiarized. And the more unsettled he feels, the more he is lifted out of the daily drudge of his everyday life in which he feels almost nothing at all. (Sometimes, this goes double when the husband has someone else expose his wife’s pictures, a process known as candaulism-by-proxy.)

To be sure, I say none of this to condone or condemn. Rather, as I said in the beginning, this was my attempt to help people wrap their heads around an oft-misunderstood phenomenon. Whether you agree with it or not, whether you partake in it or not, the fact remains that for many men, exposing their wives is a very ecstatic (albeit unsettling) experience, one bordering on the mystical. It’s just not for the faint of heart.

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  • jack hayes

    Reply Reply November 11, 2018

    its true i know i like to see other men admire my wifes body she is 34 b they stick out no sag she keeps her pussy shaved slim waist big butt i am glad she likes sex with oyhers particularlu she prefers black men i like to watch them i sometimes get them hard for her if there is more then one she has had sex with 6 in a row i clean her up after sex we usually have sex after

  • Mark

    Reply Reply November 11, 2018

    is there any material which tells why a wife is willing to do more sexual acts such as anal with lovers but not with their husband

  • Richard

    Reply Reply November 18, 2018

    yes,its nice to watch my wife make someone hard and get him soft inside her.
    the pleasure to clean her great, really nice.

  • Charles

    Reply Reply January 19, 2019

    I want to have my wife dress sexy in a dress and heels and strip for me and friends… once naked and in heels, have her bend at the waist and expose herself!

    Are there any videos out there like this? I would like to show her want I want her to do for me.

    • Tainted88

      Reply Reply March 23, 2019

      There’s videos out there like that….we make them. I’ll show u some

  • Danlonel

    Reply Reply February 6, 2019

    100 Agree
    Experienced the same

  • auntiec

    Reply Reply April 4, 2019

    My hubby has been sharing pics of me for some time and I love it
    makes me feel very special that men enjoy looking at my pics. Ever since I was a young teen and first found out what men like doing when they look at pics of naked women I wanted them doing that for me too some day

  • Ted

    Reply Reply May 25, 2019

    This makes sense. My 1st wife used to go with me to get gas, we live in a state with attendants. She would wear a short skirt, and be careless about letting her legs part. The guys sometimes washed the window for several minutes while she pretended to no notice. She also wore tops easy to allow peeks, things like that. Enormous turn on, I never understood that and always thought something was wrong with me. She liked it too, in fact, too much, which led to affairs. My current wife is far more shy, but the fantasy is still within me.

  • Mike

    Reply Reply August 16, 2019

    I think that is so hot that you love for your husband to show your pictures I wish my wife would let me do that. I would love to see some of your pictures if you wouldn’t mind?
    Thanks Mike

  • 7979

    Reply Reply August 29, 2019

    well i dont share my wifes pics until we where on holiday coming back on n empty bus she was brless and her tits whre bouncing the driver was driving over rough ground on porpouse i never knew at first she clocked on stright away

  • Frank Gallegos

    Reply Reply October 20, 2019

    When I was in the Military stationed in England I had let my gf go to the marine corps ball without me as I had duty. She is beautiful and blessed with a huge pair of tittys 36 D. I found out that after the ball she went to a party where she met up with some of my good black friends who ended up fucking her all night

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