The Appeal Of Interracial Cuckolding

Preamble & Definitional Parameters

What is Interracial Cuckolding, and why is it so appealing to so many men? (The Interracial Room of Cuckold Chat for example has been steadily growing and has recently become the second most popular room on the chat.)

In order to answer the first part of the question, we have to make a few things clear. First, the word interracial when used in this context will refer to the interpersonal relating of a white woman with a black man.

Second, the word cuckolding when used in this context will hearken back to the definition of a cuckold, and hence will refer to an arrangement where a submissive man (or a man with a submissive side) derives masochistic, erotic pleasure from his female partner having sex with another man.

Those things having been made clear, interracial cuckolding can thus be defined as a sub-niche/shade of cuckolding where a man’s primary female partner, who is “white”, has sex with another man, who is black.

Now onto the second (and more interesting) part of the question: why is interracial cuckolding so appealing to so many people?

Before we get into the details of this, I want to unequivocally state a few things on the record:

  1. This article isn’t composed of just random ideas from my head. The theories that follow are meant to be the syntheses of what I’ve learned from studying this fantasy (and those with an affinity for it) over the last decade or so.
  2. This article isn’t meant to capture *every* nuance of the “etiology” of interracial cuckolding. In other words, if a/the reason you find interracial cuckolding appealing isn’t in this article, that’s ok. As universal or general as some desires and their etiologies are, individual discrepancies and nuances will always exist.
  3. Please understand this article isn’t meant to put you or your desires into a box as much as it is to help give you some insight as to why you (or others) have an affinity for interracial cuckolding.

Now with that said and out of the way, let’s move on.

The appeal of interracial cuckolding can be broken down into two levels: the surface level, and the below-the-surface level.


The Surface & What’s Below

The surface level reasons aren’t that exciting. For example, many cucks find the thought of their milky white wife having sex with a black man appealing because of the skin color contrast; to them, it’s a hot and sexually arousing sight. And that’s about as deep as it goes. You don’t choose what sexually stimulates you, and sometimes “a cigar is just a cigar” as the anti-Freudian saying goes.

For others though, the appeal of interracial cuckolding goes much deeper and can have its roots in any or all of the following elements: the appeal of what is considered taboo, the amplification of masochistic erotic pleasure due to perceptual contrast, and the desire to experience hyper-humiliation. Let’s discuss each of these in detail.


The Taboo

As is well known, what is taboo is can be sexually arousing for many people. And there is certainly a taboo element in interracial cuckolding. How?

Historically speaking, black males have been (unfairly, ignorantly, and prejudicially) viewed by many as being dangerous/impure and less human than white males, especially in the United States. There was a time when it was considered so taboo for a black man and a white woman to have marital and/or intimate relations that the United states even enforced anti-miscegenation laws.

To be sure, modern-day society has come a long way in adopting more egalitarian/less racist attitudes towards black men (and in abolishing many of these anti-miscegenation laws)—but we’ve still a long way to go. Heck, even in the porn industry there is a certain stigma attached to having sex with a black male, as evidenced by the results of a 2016 survey done by Jon Milward which reported that 87% of porn actresses are willing to take a facial, but only 53% will do interracial porn.

To further support this are first-person reports such as those from Sophie Dee who said in a 2010 interview that agents often pressure white female performers not to appear in interracial pornography; Aurora Snow saying in a 2013 article that the major factor preventing many white actresses from doing interracial scenes is “career anxiety”; Tee Reel, male porn star saying he’s had off-camera sex with some female performers who don’t do interracial scenes; the list goes on.

I reference all that to make the following point clear: at the end of the day, whether you want to say the taboo of interracial sex is more/less in full form or vestigial, it obviously plays a role in why the evocation and fetishism of black male / white female interracial relationships are sexually arousing. This would obviously be amplified in situations where a white woman chooses to have sex with a black man over her husband, since there are double layer taboos there (interracial sex + cuckolding, both taboo).


  • maryann hayes

    Reply Reply July 27, 2019

    until a woman has interracial sex she has not been fulfilled i never knew it could be so gratifying i love it and am happy my husbamd is ok with it this is not love it is pure SEX

    • Michael

      Reply Reply November 5, 2019

      Love to see my wife with a black male or two. It’s only for the pleasure and we live good with that. When she prepares her self to a date with one i get extremly aroused just from thinking. She loves to pla her sluty role once in a while. The only thing i want is that she finds her self without that i arrange everything and than i get a pic while she’s with him.

    • Kolen

      Reply Reply January 4, 2020

      Do you think all women want to try BBC?

    • Riptorn

      Reply Reply January 18, 2020

      That’s how I feel my wife has never been with guy ever when I talk about them and their huge dicks during her giving me head she gets very aroused and has agreed to getting.a massage by a black man but so far just talk

    • Tony

      Reply Reply February 18, 2020

      Maryann i would like to thank you for the below response you gave out about the taboo of interracial sex. Personally i prefer to see my wife with black men versus someone else.

      Thank you for sharing your comment.

      until a woman has interracial sex she has not been fulfilled i never knew it could be so gratifying i love it and am happy my husbamd is ok with it this is not love it is pure SEX

    • Told ya so

      Reply Reply May 24, 2020

      Scientifically proven that BBC porn qith white girls who are girlfriends or getting cucked in real because our lil white boy sized penises cant make our girls cum, cures erectile dysfunction in white boys instantly, also cure the infertileness of the white couple by ACTUALLY making his girl cum cuz his massive BBC fills her and plants thick heavy sticky potent massive amounts of bbc cum directly in the back of her cervix where it need be and her eggs are flooding cuz she was repeatedly made come over and over, and it was always said it was scientifically impossible to penetrate the cervix..yea for a white boy tiny penis, but I’ve saw it first hand..BBC busts right through there cervix and pushed it apart

    • BustyStar

      Reply Reply June 23, 2020

      Attractive female here in my thirties. Most of my female friends are in interacial cuckold relationships. Personally I only fuck black men nowadays. The white guys are slowly becoming more submissive and many accepting.

      The new world order is now.

    • Evdi

      Reply Reply August 9, 2020

      I always loved my wife and wanted to see her happy and smiling.
      At first I could not understand why she wanted so much to try other men than me, when I knew she loved me as much as I did.
      After I went through the first shock that she wanted a bigger dick than mine, I talked to her about “size does not matter” and then when she continued her affair “size does not matter so much” and shortly after “I’m happy if she is happy “and later that I want to watch and see if what she describes is true (I could not believe it).
      It took about a month for her Black Lover to realize that he could come and fuck her in our room and to me that when it happened I should not look like the man of the house, I should be more effeminate. He took us that month to prepare me. I’m not a huge build at 5.7 inches and 158 pounds.
      First I had to wax my whole body and dye my blonde hair. (I have to admit I finally liked my new modern look) and I was ready for the show.
      That day I had to paint my fingernails and toenails in pink (it is almost invisible and put some invisible makeup) She gave me a black thong panties to wear and a spaghetti strap camisole top. Of course looking like that I was not a threat to him and very quickly he felt easy in our house. All evening I had to serve them both wine and be friendly with him who was double my size at 6,3 inch 265 pounds muscles.
      After about 2 hours of chatting at the living room I felt more relaxed too he was an ok guy funny and tender (We could be friends)We moved at the bedroom and I stayed in the side and watched my wife had one after another huge orgasms (I was impressed)
      When I’ve seen his 8 inches and the 6 inches girth , stretching her pussy my jaw dropped, now I knew what she was meaning about size do matter.
      At one of her very high moments she looked at me and asked me if I am with her and can understand her. I proudly told her that I can see her happiness and I am very happy for her. She then ask me If I want to go a step more and be part of the party and I accepted to lick her Clitt as long are her stallion fucked her. I did it too. I actually lick her and him Clean after (Cum tastes delicious) And I accepted 2 finger in my asspussy when I was in my edge. I came too without even touching my little clitty.
      I am not sure if I can but both want me to try being fucked too next time But I am not sure if I can take in my hole His huge cock (Maybe the 2 fingers are enough for me)
      For the moment I have to suggest to every wife who never try it to go for it and convince her husband that it’s the best for both of them.
      I am happy. I support my wife. 🙂

  • Peter

    Reply Reply July 28, 2019

    For me one important thing is the difference.
    Is do not want to watch someone similar to myself. For example,younger, bigger penis.and interracial is most possible difference. Beside for her the size will matter too.

    • Todd

      Reply Reply July 24, 2020

      Hi BustyStar, would like to hear how you and your friends got into the BBC lifestyle and why you only fuck black men. I come to realize that black men overall have bigger penises and fuck better than white men. It does seem that more and more white men are becoming submissive to black men and becoming bi or gay to them, why do you think that is?

  • Joe

    Reply Reply July 28, 2019

    Have you become addicted to BBC in your lust you might love your husband but don’t enjoy the same thing as you do with your bbc

  • David L

    Reply Reply July 28, 2019

    My wife and I swing, which occasionally ends up being a single male. While we have had different races, black men have performed better. Part of that comes from my enjoyment of watching her. She’s a pale white red head and the contrasting of colors is amazing to see. Does she only want bbc? Not at all. And she didn’t need it to feel fulfilled.

  • Yanzzz17

    Reply Reply August 1, 2019

    And what roles do black men play in an interracial cuckolding relationship?

    Do they want to take revenge on white men? Do they want to turn the tables and humiliate them?

    Many BBC Bulls believe that they are sexually superior to them.

    It takes two to do that. This is a very one-sided article.

    • Dr. 36

      Reply Reply August 2, 2019

      It was meant to be a very one-sided article 🙂 Getting into the appeal of interracial cuckolding from the POV of black men, or the POV of the women, are entirely different, albeit related, topics. They would require separate articles 🙂

  • AlanD

    Reply Reply August 9, 2019

    A really interesting article and one that deserves to be read by everyone interested in the subject. Personally, I think perhaps more interesting still is why so many white women are drawn to this. The obvious answer would be size of cock, but not all black men have bigger cocks than all white men. I suspect that the greater attraction is the perennial thrill of the forbidden which clearly has a historical back story and which Dr. 36 alludes to more in the cuckold context.

    Perhaps one of the ladies on the site might tell us more?

  • Mr W

    Reply Reply March 10, 2020

    My wife has been with many black guys my first wife was gang raped by 3 black guys. I’m only 6 inches, but used a penis sleeve on both. The sounds that came from both of them was a huge turn on. I guess why I want my wife to fuck another big black cock, is to see her sexual goddess come out. I buy her toys, but that isn’t enough. Access to porn and seeing women taking huge cocks and seeing how they enjoy it is one of the big reasons guys are going towards this. Another reason I think is some guys are secretly bi-sexual and want to participate. My wife is on a cruise right now in the Caribbean. I said she should hookup with a guy in Jamaica while she is there. She’s taken a few trips with her friend to Jamaica to go fuck black guys, cause she lives in a small town and everyone talks. She first said it was the weed that they went down there for, but I’m not a moron. I finally got it out of them the reason. I bought the Shane Diesel dildo, that I’m making into a penis sleeve to fuck the shit out of her and am going to video it to show her her excitement. I’m not worried she’ll leave me. I’ve given her her longest orgasms and most orgasms (19 yes I’m bragging) in one day. Hopefully we can bring out that primal sexual goddess.

  • TnHotwife

    Reply Reply July 24, 2020

    That explains alot. Maybe it will help me now!

  • Cuckold

    Reply Reply July 24, 2020

    I love to preform oral on my wife the day after she’s been with her young black lover.

  • kristen

    Reply Reply September 21, 2020

    want to please my husband and let a large black male have his way with me..looking for advise..anyone?

    • JamieO

      Reply Reply October 20, 2020

      Kristen, as a man who has seen his wife with many black men, my advise would be
      1. Make sure you both absolutely want this – once it’s been done there is no going back – make sure you have really discussed it and the implications.
      2. It isn’t a cure for relationship issues, it needs to be done from a position of strength
      3. Be very sure what you want, does your husband actually want to be cuckolded, or does the idea of seeing you with a black guy turn him (and you) on. One may lead to the other, but make sure you know.
      4. Personal view – but give some thought to using a professional escort the first time. He will have been there and done it before and despite what we may hope for, there can be a huge amount of awkwardness around this the first time it happens.
      5. Be aware that sometimes the reality is different from the fantasy, if you’re not both sure then wait until you are.

      Hope that helps, all I can tell you is that for bus it has massively strengthened our relationship and is the best thing we have ever done, no going back, but there is no way we would want to!!

      Good luck

    • Double D

      Reply Reply October 26, 2020

      I have been having sex with my black lover for about six months now and my husband and I discussed it for about three months I let him take the lead role and made it seem like I could take it or leave it. He got more and more hot for it we found the perfect guy and he is a great lover! With an 8 inch penis that Makes me squirt and now we see him about two times a month my husband watches will take videos or pictures and when my lover is done my husband gets to fuck me too I’m a lucky girl

  • Lou

    Reply Reply November 21, 2020

    This is all you see today. I am not a cuck and never will be. not in my DNA. I am 64 and 30 yrs ago you just did not see this.if this existed back then well lets just say there was no internet then and don’t believe was popular then.What the hell is the appeal. i just don’t see it. The mat be a racist element involved with this. i mean it is a fetish and those have always been exploited.

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