It’s my goal to get all my clients from A –> B as quickly—and safely, with a good foundation of course—as possible. Sometimes though, it takes a fair bit of time time. And you know what? That’s ok, especially if this fantasy is something you’re serious about.
As much as we all want the shortest path to the goal, it’s important to realize the gravity of what you’re asking your wife to do, and to respect the “formidibility/formidibleness” of the challenges you might be facing. Let me show you an example. (I asked this client for permission to share some of the details of his situation):
As you can see, these aren’t exactly things you can fix in a fortnight. There are problems on multiple levels, and the problems have existed for quite some time. Over the next year, the client and I worked on these things bit by bit, and the process wasn’t a linear one. It was a two steps forward, one step back, then two steps to the left, three to the right, forward back forward kind of thing. Sounds like a pain, doesn’t it?
If you’ve read some of my other articles though, you’ll already know this can be par for the course; nay, it can and often is indicative of a perfectly natural and healthy way when it comes how these types of things progress. All progress isn’t always linear, and if you can’t understand or accept that, you’ll give up too easily or too soon.
1 Year & 4 Months Later…
This client stuck it out with his wife, and I stuck it out with him, and because of that, here’s the latest update:
So, if you feel hopeless or helpless about your fantasy, know that you don’t have to! My site and services exist to help those guys who are in situations that appear/feel hopeless.