To Wannabe Cuckolds Who Want Their Wives To “Cheat”:
Have you ever wondered why the thought of your wife being naughty, dirty, slutty—even to the point of her cheating—turns you on?
In fact, the very thought of her crossing that last line, the thought of her “cheating”, that’s exactly makes you most hard, isn’t it?
It can almost be described as a thrill.
And in reality, you actually wouldn’t be wrong to call it a thrill since the psycho-sexual response you have is due to the dopamine and adrenaline surge you feel pulsating through your body…a surge that results from the competing and seductive dance of conflicting emotions inside you.
On the one hand you have this intense but intoxicating jealousy that “hurts” in just the right way. On the other hand you feel this overwhelming, intense arousal—this compulsive desire—that wants “it” to happen so badly, you shake!
I’m here to tell you that if you feel that way, you’re not alone. I’m here to tell you that hundreds of thousands, millions of men in fact, all across the world feel that exact…same…way.
I wouldn’t ever want to reduce explaining all of this to just one possible explanation. After all, there are many ways and theories one can use to explain it. But there is one psychological idea that I’ve found to resonate one some level with just about all men who get become aroused at the notion of their wife cheating.
The idea is that the experience of being a willing yet “unwilling” cuckold—of being “cheated on”—it unsettles them. It shakes up their hum-drum lives. Of course, one has to be able to handle this “unsettlingness”. But for the true fan of cuckolding, being unsettled, even to the point of feeling destroyed, is far from a bad thing. Why?
Because deep down some men want to be destroyed. Being cheated on defamiliarizes your life and maybe the universe for you while you’re at it. It lifts you out of your daily drudge. It’s through the experience of being unsettled or being destroyed that one feels more alive than he’s ever felt before.
If this can be lived positively, then it can be a very ecstatic experience, one bordering on the mystical.
At the end of the day though, whether you want to be destroyed or not, some men do. And do you know what? It’s not really that uncommon…