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Shhhh…My Cuckold Husband Wants Me To Cheat! 4.9/5 (7)

To Wannabe Cuckolds Who Want Their Wives To “Cheat”:

Have you ever wondered why the thought of your wife being naughty, dirty, slutty—even to the point of her cheating—turns you on?

In fact, the very thought of her crossing that last line, the thought of her “cheating”, that’s exactly makes you most hard, isn’t it?

It can almost be described as a thrill.

And in reality, you actually wouldn’t be wrong to call it a thrill since the psycho-sexual response you have is due to the dopamine and adrenaline surge you feel pulsating through your body...a surge that results from the competing and seductive dance of conflicting emotions inside you.

On the one hand you have this intense but intoxicating jealousy that “hurts” in just the right way. On the other hand you feel this overwhelming, intense arousal—this compulsive desire—that wants “it” to happen so badly, you shake!

I’m here to tell you that if you feel that way, you’re not alone. I’m here to tell you that hundreds of thousands, millions of men in fact, all across the world feel that exact…same…way.


I wouldn't ever want to reduce explaining all of this to just one possible explanation. After all, there are many ways and theories one can use to explain it. But there is one psychological idea that I've found to resonate one some level with just about all men who get become aroused at the notion of their wife cheating.

The idea is that the experience of being a willing yet "unwilling" cuckold—of being "cheated on"—it unsettles them. It shakes up their hum-drum lives. Of course, one has to be able to handle this "unsettlingness". But for the true fan of cuckolding, being unsettled, even to the point of feeling destroyed, is far from a bad thing. Why?

Because deep down some men want to be destroyed. Being cheated on defamiliarizes your life and maybe the universe for you while you're at it. It lifts you out of your daily drudge. It's through the experience of being unsettled or being destroyed that one feels more alive than he's ever felt before.

If this can be lived positively, then it can be a very ecstatic experience, one bordering on the mystical.

At the end of the day though, whether you want to be destroyed or not, some men do. And do you know what? It's not really that uncommon...

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  • eric pesci

    Reply Reply April 7, 2018

    hi – just wanted to throw in my thoughts on this as ive thought long and hard on why the idea of my wife cheating on me is such a turn on. first a brief overview.

    i am 51, my wife 45. Been together for 28 yrs now. 3 kids – 2 at home still. we have never broken up and never cheated on each other. our marriage and sex life has always been excellent w a few rough patches here and there. i bought up swinging right after our first child was born – she wasnt interested but warmed up enough to the idea over the next months to meet a couple for drinks. she was pregnant w our 2nd child soon after and our 3rd was born a few more years after that. we then moved to oregon and about 6 months later we had our first MFM. she played with him 2 more times then got an std and the whole thing shut down for about 6 years. i finally persuaded her to try it again which she did about 4 years ago and from that guy she met the guy shes been fooling around with now for the last 2 years.
    My wife is hot. shes a bonafide MILF. sexy as holy hell w a smouldering freaky-ness that would blow anyones mind that knows her professionally. shes a class act, seemingly always all business, cultured, polished etc. she never dresses provocatively, never looks or acts slutty. shes an awesome woman across the board. and shes pretty much a goody goody preferring to always err on the side of caution. she doesnt like getting in trouble or bucking the norm. (i on the other hand am so unconventional that psychologists call me a shark).
    So…i have honed in on my reason for wanting her to cheat. it turns me on to think of her flirting enticing another man all on her own. to the point of setting up a tryst – i would almost faint. its so unlike her to do it that if she did it that would be beyond a turn on. if i could intercept her messages and somehow watch her without her knowledge – that would be like being self actualized.

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