A Cautionary Tale

One of the most common questions I get asked by wannabe-cuckolds is whether or not they should try and set their wife up with another guy without her knowledge. They think (or hope) that if the guy is charming and/or attractive enough, that the fabled “perfect situation” just might unfold.

“If she met someone she liked, I think she just might go for it”…so goes the thinking.

But I’ve gotta tell ya, in all the time I’ve been doing this, I’ve rarely if ever seen it work out. What I have seen is tragedy, ranging from significant (and sometimes permanent) damage to a couple’s interpersonal trust, to complete and utter relationship implosion. It’s not good.

The most recent example comes from an email I received from a client I’m working with. I asked his permission to share it with all of you in hopes that it might serve as a warning sign that bad things can happen if you take the risk and go the route of trying to set your wife up.

Now whether or not you want to Monday morning quarterback and think, “Of course his wife would have thought something was up!”, you have to still concede that women are smart, man. Many of them–most of them–have really heightened senses of intuition.

(I remember when I was a child they called my Grandmother La Bruja because no one knew how she knew some of the things she did.)

Anyway, my point is this: if you think that you can get away with setting your wife up without her knowledge, the odds are highly likely that she will either find out, or it will backfire in some other way. It’s not worth the risk. This could be your future:

Last but not least, I want to thank my client for allowing me to share this with all of you. He’s really a good guy; he’s a smart guy too. It’s just that in this situation he let his passion/desire get the best of him and it impaired his judgment. It happens to the best of us.

My hopes–our hopes–is that by sharing this story with you, you’ll think twice about how you proceed when it comes to making your fantasy happen. Do it the right way, do it the safe way. I can help you with that.



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